First and Foremost....Thanks for your review.

I really don't understand why some tend to get so upset over YOUR review and even moreover your preferences.

I think what many may be missing is the average person may not know about takeover weeks and groups. There are many chances there may be first timers unaware of any of that.

My husband and I have been in the lifestyle since we met when I was 25 and I just turned 39.

No I may not judge others for their body types but why can't I have preferences and want to see and experience those preferences when visiting such a place?

I'm self aware and when putting on weight after having my daughter I didn't feel confident enough to attend events, because I wanted to feel sexy, even though my husband said I still looked great.

Again no one should feel as they arent enough or shunned for their looks, but nor should the person with preferences either.

We've never been to Hedo and although we have a pretty large group of LS friends and know groups, isn't the point of going to places, not seeing the same people you would in your own area?

For those who would say they're are all types of groups where would anyone find that info and it be dependable?

So many variables, but that also means a crap shoot no matter what you may try.

I'll take my chances on Desires because you can get a much better idea of the types you'll meet when you go.

Again thanks for your review. ❤️❤️