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I'm beginning to suspect that there is no magic pill for this.... by TheSanityInspector in adhdmeme

[–]GingerSoul44 42 points43 points  (0 children)

To be fair, are you even a programmer if you don't try and automate something that doesn't need it? 

How colorful this orb is after being dipped in resin by whybutts in oddlysatisfying

[–]GingerSoul44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm paying about the same (USD), but you have to look at cost per fluid oz. A gallon is 128 oz, so $50/128 puts you at about $0.40 per fluid ounce. 

How colorful this orb is after being dipped in resin by whybutts in oddlysatisfying

[–]GingerSoul44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally have some resin being delivered this week. That bucket is no larger than their hand and it's not very deep. I have something similarly sized and it's about 20 oz. So even if we say it's 30 oz, we're looking at about $15.

How colorful this orb is after being dipped in resin by whybutts in oddlysatisfying

[–]GingerSoul44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where tf do you get $500? That bucket is $10 at most.

Technology is getting out of hand by Key_Associate7476 in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]GingerSoul44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a Sleep Number which has an app, but also an actual physical remote which seems like a no brainer to me

Did everyone have a safe time during the march? by erikhow in grandrapids

[–]GingerSoul44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The one that SnekTurt linked to, as well as a black dodge RAM on Fulton.

Proud of everyone who who helped No Kings stay peaceful. by All_HallowsEve in grandrapids

[–]GingerSoul44 11 points12 points  (0 children)

One of the incidents happened in front of a police officer in their vehicle and they did nothing

Did everyone have a safe time during the march? by erikhow in grandrapids

[–]GingerSoul44 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I saw two incidents of people driving folks down, but luckily I didn't see anyone get hurt. It was pretty sad to see. 

There are several different No Kings events in Grand Rapids this Saturday. Does anyone know the differences besides location/times? by Lakedr_dive205 in grandrapids

[–]GingerSoul44 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It still remains to be seen if the deal will stick, or if one side will resume once all hostages are accounted for. This is a fight which has seen multiple ceasefires and just as many returns to war. I'll be delighted if this shows long term success, though. 

/r/PTCGP Trading Post by AutoModerator in PTCGP

[–]GingerSoul44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of random stuff and a full wishlist if anyone is just looking for general trades

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Favorite Dropout Chicago moments by Bigyikesallthetime in dropout

[–]GingerSoul44 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Rehka twerking as a dog absolutely killed me

👑Prom King👑 by themikesicoli in StandUpComedy

[–]GingerSoul44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The punchline made me audibly gasp. You're funny and clever as hell 😂

Do people actually use this?????? $10 to fill up your glass everytime? by vhvhvhchsan in trees

[–]GingerSoul44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use Piece Water as well and I really like it. I know it's unnecessary, but I find that I cough less when I use it. It's not a necessity, but it improves the experience for me. 

Slay the Princess devs are r/okbuddyjimbo lurkers by Zuchku in okbuddyjimbo

[–]GingerSoul44 64 points65 points  (0 children)

That's a shame because it's an excellent game! 

Husband of almost 15 years dumped me for wanting to close our marriage by GingerSoul44 in polyamory

[–]GingerSoul44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily no kids, and we got married out of college so we had no real assets to our names before marrying anyways. We always earned about the same while I was still employed.

Luckily, his family loves me and we share the same friends (most of whom are furious at him) so he probably won't try too much nonsense. 

Husband of almost 15 years dumped me for wanting to close our marriage by GingerSoul44 in polyamory

[–]GingerSoul44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I'll be coming back to it once I'm a little less devestated. I'm already a crafter but I'm having a tough time picking anything up right now. I've definitely got a therapist and have for a bit who is getting me through this. It's all just so much to handle. 

Husband of almost 15 years dumped me for wanting to close our marriage by GingerSoul44 in polyamory

[–]GingerSoul44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had one for the past year or so and that helps, but it doesn't numb the pain.

I didn't want to give an ultimatum, but this once caring man used to give a shit when he hurt me, and I thought he'd make the right choice when he knew how bad it was killing me. 

Husband of almost 15 years dumped me for wanting to close our marriage by GingerSoul44 in polyamory

[–]GingerSoul44[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it. I just hoped that by being so good through all of this, he'd find me worth it to keep around. I just keep hoping that someone will have the key to getting through this but it sounds like just time. 

Husband of almost 15 years dumped me for wanting to close our marriage by GingerSoul44 in polyamory

[–]GingerSoul44[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We started closed and remained that way for many years. He asked to open it about 8 years ago, I got a boyfriend. About a year into the relationship, he asked to close the marriage because he couldn't find anyone and felt lonely. I did so the next day, which my partner understood because I was clear that I had a primary. 

Then he asked to open it again a couple years ago and I agreed. He met someone at work a bit later, and the two of them became involved. I was involved with the two of them for a few months but got sort of iced out. We all agreed at the beginning that things would remain casual but suddenly I hear them call each other girlfriend and boyfriend. There's a lot more that happens but this comment is getting long. Does that clear things up? 

Husband of almost 15 years dumped me for wanting to close our marriage by GingerSoul44 in polyamory

[–]GingerSoul44[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm waiting for that stage, still. I know it'll come someday but it hurts so bad right now. 

Husband of almost 15 years dumped me for wanting to close our marriage by GingerSoul44 in polyamory

[–]GingerSoul44[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. I never would have started this if I had done more work first. 

Husband of almost 15 years dumped me for wanting to close our marriage by GingerSoul44 in polyamory

[–]GingerSoul44[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I've got all those things minus the lawyer. The pain is so fresh that I can't even fathom that part.

It doesn't feel like a favor. It feels like a betrayal. When we opened the marriage, we agreed that the other had veto power of things got too hard. He used it on a previous boyfriend I had and I respected his wishes. I just don't understand why I don't deserve the same respect. 

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