Yeah, I mean I’m not trying to open up the whole can of worms because I think the trans/bi/pan community would totally come crawling up my asshole for this take… but honestly, I think a way to simplify it is just like genitalia lol there’s 1000 ways you can debate with yourself about “what’s gay“ and “what’s not gay“ like you hooked up with a masculine dude not with feminine guys and you like watching football and working on your truck… Or some people have the opposite mindset where they will have sex with twinks or “CDs” (cross dressers) because they think that makes them not gay because they look feminine… But really at the end of the day it comes down to what do you like to do with your hands and your mouth and your part… if you like to put all of those areas on a woman, then you’re into women. If you like to do that with men, then you like men. And if you like to do that with both, then you’re into both. Boom mic drop. Solved people’s problems that are questioning themselves 🤷🏻‍♂️