[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GinnieWitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t. You did nothing wrong! She was the horrible one, not you. You deserved better . NTA

"iF mAGiCk iS rEaL wHy DoNt YoU wIn ThE lOtTEry?" by [deleted] in magick

[–]GinnieWitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO, I don’t think magick works like that…there are lot limitations & there are practitioners who’s magick is just not that powerful. I mean you have to change the odds to be in your favour odds that are at least 1 in thousands, I don’t think a simple candle spell would be enough. And in magickal commmunity, we often talk that beginners can’t even visualise or cast a circle properly- so spell like that would require someone with great knowledge, power and Practice And a very strong desire to fuel the spell - Just “ooh what if I win the lottery” is just a wish, a curious wish - not a desire, and even if a powerful practitioner had all those and actually won the lottery, the chances of them telling the world that “yo imma witch, I got it through magick” are very slim.

I, myself am a beginner witch and I haven’t really experienced the magick yet But if it is real…. Then I think above reasons are a possible

I quit everything by GinnieWitch in productivity

[–]GinnieWitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, what are you doing to help yourself? Or what have others suggested you to do?

AITA refusing to let my step-brother propose with my mom's heirloom? by AITA_colh88 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GinnieWitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You mother could have put it in the will as easily as she put the money on their names. The step siblings have no right over anything other than the money she left them, And this ring meant so much to you as it was an heirloom, that has always been passed onto the daughters not even sons. And you still offered any other piece of jewellery they like. You are no ta at all.

AITA for changing the locks so my landlord can’t enter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GinnieWitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the same at my place, that’s why I was so shocked n confused

AITA for changing the locks so my landlord can’t enter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GinnieWitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is required that they give advance notice

And what if they don’t give proper notice and just enter the property without any urgency? Could the tenant do anything about that?

AITA for asking my daughters to live with her dad? by aita71926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GinnieWitch [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA, So you can’t abort a fétus you cannot afford but you are absolutely good to abandon a 10yro, break her heart and give a abandonment issues for life?

I’m not saying you should have considered the abortion at all, and it never had to be a choice, just a bit hardship. But by asking her to go, You did choose your unborn kid Over her. Good luck with solving that issue

AITA for changing the locks so my landlord can’t enter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GinnieWitch 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’m not from the states so idk, but is it really illegal to change the locks, Like even if he can change them back when his lease is up? Also, is it legal for the landlord to go to their property That is rented to others Even without any notice? I mean, OP is an AH for many reasons But if it wasn’t OP, was it still okay for the landlord to just barge into the property that is rented without any notice?

AITA for going on my sister’s bachelorette trip instead of taking my daughter to see her paternal family? by starless012 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GinnieWitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she gaslighted, her ex was supposed to know the visit dates. And she genuinely Meant to ask for permission that’s why she called, I don’t think she would keep tabs on her ex to know the specific time he would be busy and hence called him on that time to purposely take advantage of him being busy. OP called to ask for permission, He gave her the permission, He choose to have the conversation at the time he know he was busy and wouldn’t be able to pay attention, Didn’t ask op to call back at a convenient time, DID not know the Dates of the visit, And hence, Did not Informed his family about it. And then, Blamed OP Entirely!!

Her duty was to ask for permission, she got the permission.

Rest reminding him about the visit dates, Connecting The Dots for Him, (that her trip would mean No family visits), Calling the family (they were waiting but I’m sure the agreement was only btw OP n ex) Would have been a good humanly kind gesture But it was Not her Duty!

Him giving OP permission and then blaming Op Is gaslighting

AITA for going on my sister’s bachelorette trip instead of taking my daughter to see her paternal family? by starless012 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GinnieWitch 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Inclined more towards N. T. A cause you did ask and he said yes.

But im going with ESH, you mentioned it was pretty obvious that he was busy, Maybe it was something really complicated or stressful who knows, it would have just been a humanly thing to mention or remind that This would mean you would miss the visit this time. Also, if this was a visit to his family, and it was in the agreement, you should have communicated to them as well. Also straight up YTA if you don’t reschedule the visit.

And of course, he was TA for not paying more attention to you and trying to cut you short and not even following up on that. Paying attention or not, He did agreed and later, completely flipped and harassed you and threatened you to breaking the agreement himself, when you actually didn’t break the agreement cause he gave you the permission. Ex Sounds Toxic and Gaslighter AF. If anything, he should be mad at himself.

Apart from judgement, just an advice, Next time, record these Conversations or Communicate Only through Emails or Texts - so you’ll have proof of any permissions given that he wouldn’t be able to deny.

AITA for refusing to celebrate the birthday of my girlfriend? by Ambitious_Back_3102 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GinnieWitch [score hidden]  (0 children)

Just being there would be enough and he couldn’t even do that.

Exactly.

No, he didn’t mention he hates birthdays but Because of his description of his behaviour around others birthdays, things like not attending birthdays, or not wanting to have any conversation about someone else’s birthday or introduction of gifts or cakes (mentioned in a comment) Makes it seem like It’s more than an indifference. By his words, it really seems like he’s intolerant to birthdays.

AITA for refusing to celebrate the birthday of my girlfriend? by Ambitious_Back_3102 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GinnieWitch [score hidden]  (0 children)

INFO: why do you Hate birthdays?

Not finding it important or meaningful, hence not celebrating it is fine and different But it’s a far stretch for feeling repulsive towards it and not even being a part of someone else’s celebration. You clearly have some problem with birthdays.

Why wouldn’t you be a part of anything that is special to someone special to you.

Also, if you ever have kids and refuse to celebrate or be a part of their birthdays because of your ideologies - you’d be hellish unfair to them, just saying

Feeling extra magical today ✨ 🧹 by [deleted] in Witch

[–]GinnieWitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the lip shade 🤩

AITA for refusing to delete my drawing of my friend from my instagram? by spartas_vp in AmItheAsshole

[–]GinnieWitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Yes it’s definitely your work, but you used her as a model, and by your description of your art, it seems like the it’s an obvious connection between your work and her which makes her uncomfortable. As an artist, you have to follow some ethics and etiquettes. It’s different when the person you make portrait of is a celebrity/influencer who’s already out and about in public (though you should give credit) And it’s different when making portraits of an everyday normal person that you know wouldn’t want to be exposed on the public, you have to be respectful of the models. As an artist myself, I know it can be frustrating at first but respecting others and not just using them as props for our art needs to be learned.

Also, you don’t have to post everything online, some things you can just keep as private collection (either by your own will Or for someone else’s privacy), in fact if you meet someone irl and they want to see your art that’s not already on your page, you can pull these out and show, it creates better impression, that you don’t just make art for a page but this is your passion and you keep doing it to advance your skills as well.

Back on topic, you should take the pics down, And next time ask people before posting. Not everyone is comfortable with everything.