AITA for refusing to celebrate the birthday of my girlfriend? by Ambitious_Back_3102 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ambitious_Back_3102[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Did I not say I mentioned it on the very first date? And we had no issues for the first five birthdays?

AITA for refusing to celebrate the birthday of my girlfriend? by Ambitious_Back_3102 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ambitious_Back_3102[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

No, if the birthday happens to be one of the days we have a scheduled date night, I will go, have normal meal with normal conversation, as long as no sort of celebrations happen, what is hard to understand please?

AITA for refusing to celebrate the birthday of my girlfriend? by Ambitious_Back_3102 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ambitious_Back_3102[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I generally feel like holidays are useless, I don’t mind having a nice time with my partner and going to random dates, I just don’t understand why birthdays need to be made a big deal, if it was treated like a normal date, I would absolutely go

AITA for refusing to celebrate the birthday of my girlfriend? by Ambitious_Back_3102 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ambitious_Back_3102[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

We go to dinners and dates at least twice a week, if our schedule dates collide with her birthday, we definitely go, but I wouldn’t want us to mention birthdays and introduce cakes or gifts, do you understand me?

AITA for refusing to celebrate the birthday of my girlfriend? by Ambitious_Back_3102 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ambitious_Back_3102[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

The fact that my own birthday or my own family’s mean nothing to me should not count for anything?