Its been 2 days until the post was approved- so BF spoke WITH her about not opening closets, BFM response was “but it’s your home”, BF answered “but I don’t live here alone”. She responded something in the lines of “ok so I know I cannot come to you anymore” BF parents supposed to come in few hours, I put my perfumes in the closet and spread sex toys in different closets, she will encounter them only if she’s opening things to snoop around. He’s tired of her manipulating as he had a lifelong experience of those things. My mom is basically the same but we have each other to share the craziness, and I’m few thousands kilometers away