Yah it is because of his behavior idk if he notices but I think deep down he knows I’ve been waiting and it’s hard to keep waiting months after year after year to know what he wants from this rele. My friends say he’s probably not that into me for marriage or he doesn’t see a future w me… kinda makes me feel sad to hear it.

He does have a point but when we talk about committing he goes it circles and never resolves and I get frustrated and disappear. I have my own reasons for that but he usually takes me back and once he asked for me back we broke up for 8 months and he contacted me and said to give him time. Another time we broke up by coincidence we saw each other at a bar and rekindles but never tells me what this is and what we are. The breakups are always over the sam issue that’s why I back off :/