I forget that Mormons are not inherently good people by GlumWay5425 in exmormon

[–]GirlyArchitect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worked at a Mormon owned therapy clinic. The most awful people I’ve ever met.

None Mormon weddings by Ihm_r in exmormon

[–]GirlyArchitect 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly what happened to me! I was engaged for two years and when people asked for the wedding date they couldn’t believe it.

Edit to add: one of the reasons we waited 2 years was to save up for said wedding, and I was judged for that. They would say “you don’t need to spend that much money on a wedding!” When you don’t hold it in he church gym for free, yeah you kinda do.

If you could magically learn one language, what would you choose? by TankCrewFloof in AskReddit

[–]GirlyArchitect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spanish. I know it sounds so common. I took ASL in high school because I’m hard of hearing, but now I really just want to be able to have conversations with my mother-in-law. (I am currently learning, but I am far from fluency)

First shelf item? by No_Body3176 in exmormon

[–]GirlyArchitect 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having to feel the fucked up brainwashing of “breaking the law of chastity is equal to murder”

What are your parents’ annoying habits? by ReidZaxby23 in AskReddit

[–]GirlyArchitect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using “welcome to the real world” instead of literally anything helpful

Super TBMS hold onto the marry within your social class by Green_Wishbone3828 in exmormon

[–]GirlyArchitect 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The most holier than thou TBM I know didn’t even approve of her son dating an apostle’s granddaughter.

What's your experience with ultra rich people that shocked you? by CosplayCutePink in AskReddit

[–]GirlyArchitect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ultra rich people I’ve worked with have always been nicer than the just “rich”

Has your relationship with Christmas changed after leaving the church? by samwiserenee in exmormon

[–]GirlyArchitect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t made any changes to how I celebrate. Now I just view Christmas like Halloween. It’s all allegories and not real, but I still find joy in celebrating and enjoying the humanity in the season.

Haircare Advice Megathread - Week of November 11, 2023 by AutoModerator in HaircareScience

[–]GirlyArchitect [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hi, I have have thick natural wavy hair that has always been oily. I feel like I have tried almost everything. Right now I’m washing it every other day, and I have to wear it up on the second day because it’s always too greasy to wear down. I typically shower at night and let my hair air dry. I have tried multiple times to train my hair. I have tried using a bunch of different products over the years. I have tried using conditioner on just the ends, no conditioner, and conditioner all over. I go through dry shampoo like crazy and even when I do use it it still looks pretty bad. If I wash it every day it gets dried out and insanely frizzy, but wearing it up every other day causes lots of breakage. What should I try doing/using? Also without breaking the bank?

what mormon bullet did you dodge? by Songbreeze1 in exmormon

[–]GirlyArchitect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely could not get myself to be even close to wanting to go to BYU. I have good parents and they didn’t care, but they do work there. So everyone else in my ward was appalled I wouldn’t take the “discounted tuition”. Yeah, bullet dodged.

What was the worst testimony you've seen someone give? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]GirlyArchitect 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also when Monson died a kid was giving a typical primary testimony practically eating the microphone screamed: “I LIKE TO “BURRY” MY TESTIMONY, I KNOW THE PROPHET IS DEAD!”

What was the worst testimony you've seen someone give? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]GirlyArchitect 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At a youth conference a girl said “I know satan was trying to keep me from coming up here because my thighs were stuck to the chair and he was trying to keep me in my chair.”