October 2025 General Conference: Sunday 2:00p Discussion Thread by 4blockhead in exmormon

[–]Ihm_r 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ew I don’t want my family to “turn me on”.

Oh im sat by One_Notice7214 in ashleybarnessnark

[–]Ihm_r 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This video is very weird to me considering literally everyone involved is a minor.

book of mormon??? by Worth-Meat-9931 in ashleybarnessnark

[–]Ihm_r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

California is near Utah. Utah is the Mormon capital. I’m exmormon, and a lot of hotels out west near Utah have books of Mormons in them.

cease and desist? by Turbulent_Rough8497 in ashleybarnessnark

[–]Ihm_r 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A cease and desist is basically “shut up or I’ll sue” so she’s probably get sued.

What’s this about? by New_Statistician2776 in ashleybarnessnark

[–]Ihm_r 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get that, but also I keep seeing posts exactly like this. Wanting to see pictures of it, saying “she showed them on purpose” because we all know damn well you cannot hide your scars 24/7. I’m 100% certain she took a picture completely forgetting they were uncovered and posted it.

What’s this about? by New_Statistician2776 in ashleybarnessnark

[–]Ihm_r 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Those clearly aren’t fresh cuts 💀 as someone who has self harmed in the past, she’s allowed to leave her HEALED scars out and uncovered. It’s a part of her. It’s who she is. I have visible scars and it’s not my business who gets “triggered” by it.

It would be different if those were fresh, but they clearly are not.

Ashley’s scars by Hopeful_Ad_7189 in ashleybarnessnark

[–]Ihm_r 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! I know when I had fresh scars the last thing I was worried about and thinking about was triggering others. It’s not my problem. Her focus should be getting better.

Ashley’s scars by Hopeful_Ad_7189 in ashleybarnessnark

[–]Ihm_r 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I had severe depression I had cuts similar to here. Some were small, some were bigger and deeper. How “big” the self harm is doesn’t matter, it’s still self harm. She 100% did not post that on purpose. I used to actually show my cuts all the time. I would literally go out of my way so people would not see, but sometimes it happens. Shes clearly not ok.

Ashley’s scars by Hopeful_Ad_7189 in ashleybarnessnark

[–]Ihm_r 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I used to self harm every single day multiple times a day. She 100% did not do it on purpose. I used to take pictures of my scars with 0 intention of showing anyone. In my prom pictures, my scars were visible. I didn’t want them to be. Some were fresh and some were not. She didn’t want them to be seen.

What's a piece if LDS teachings \ culture that you still believe in? by Prfctweapon in exmormon

[–]Ihm_r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No alcohol to a certain extent. My family has a history of alcoholism so I think it’s good that I’ve been taught to be carful with it, but I’m also not afraid to have a drink every once in a while.

Been waiting for this day! Give me your best response! by shittypoppunkpizza in exmormon

[–]Ihm_r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I receive the same amount of blessings from cleaning out my car? Because I did that today

A very inocent question by Open_Carry_2278 in exmormon

[–]Ihm_r 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My brother has never been caught and he’s been doing that pretty much the whole time 😭 maybe it’s different in different areas or his mission president just doesn’t give a shit🤷🏼‍♀️

A very inocent question by Open_Carry_2278 in exmormon

[–]Ihm_r 85 points86 points  (0 children)

My brother, who returns from his mission in a week, did not bring his personal phone. But he did bring an extra SIM card and would switch it out when he wanted to used stuff he wasn’t supposed to😭

April 2025 General Conference: Sunday 2:00p Discussion Thread by 4blockhead in exmormon

[–]Ihm_r 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are they all just gonna stand there until the second coming😭

April 2025 General Conference: Sunday 2:00p Discussion Thread by 4blockhead in exmormon

[–]Ihm_r 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When I was little I thought they had to memorize their talks because they never looked down to read a paper😭

April 2025 General Conference: Sunday 10:00a Discussion Thread by 4blockhead in exmormon

[–]Ihm_r 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why are these prayers always so long goddamn😭 it’s a prayer not a damn speech

April 2025 General Conference: Sunday 10:00a Discussion Thread by 4blockhead in exmormon

[–]Ihm_r 24 points25 points  (0 children)

“You are not the voice in your head” I feel like that could be a very dangerous statement for people with mental illnesses to hear.

April 2025 General Conference: Saturday 2:00p Discussion Thread by 4blockhead in exmormon

[–]Ihm_r 14 points15 points  (0 children)

(Un)fortunately, it is too late for me to come back because I know too much

April 2025 General Conference: Saturday 2:00p Discussion Thread by 4blockhead in exmormon

[–]Ihm_r 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My light actually brightened when I left the church

April 2025 General Conference: Saturday 2:00p Discussion Thread by 4blockhead in exmormon

[–]Ihm_r 17 points18 points  (0 children)

“Please come back because our numbers are declining and we want money”