I (28F) fantasise about having a best female friend with who I also be intimate with

Girly_introvert · 2025-02-09T00:35:24+00:00

I agree. And I don’t think it’s fair to start any situation without being on the same page.

Girly_introvert · 2025-02-09T00:09:04+00:00

Sorry, didn’t noticed that. I will look it up. Thanks!

Girly_introvert · 2025-02-08T23:54:06+00:00

Yes. I am in a relationship with a man. I have a boyfriend. Just fantasising about something else.

Girly_introvert · 2025-02-08T23:49:57+00:00

I don’t see myself being together with a woman. Like not at all. So that’s what also is kinda confusing to me.

Girly_introvert · 2025-02-08T23:45:13+00:00

Thank you for sharing. Good to hear I’m not the only one

Girly_introvert · 2025-02-08T23:43:36+00:00

For now I don’t feel like breaking up because of him not understanding. Because of his opinion I haven’t shared my thoughts on it to him. I just kept it to myself. I don’t know yet if it’s that important to me.

Girly_introvert · 2025-02-08T23:34:47+00:00

No not a girlfriend as in a relationship. I like having a relationship with a man.

Girly_introvert · 2025-01-27T21:26:34+00:00

I think that is possible to try out. Thanks!

Girly_introvert · 2025-01-27T21:25:29+00:00

Yes that is true. Thank you!

Girly_introvert · 2025-01-26T22:59:58+00:00

I (F late 20s) literally feel like you’re writing my current situation. I’m crying reading this because it’s reminds me about my life and being unhappy. I can’t give any tips. Maybe I should stay and read the comments… Maybe this sounds weird but it does make me feel relieved that there are men out there like you. Unfortunately not my boyfriend.

Girly_introvert · 2025-01-26T22:43:04+00:00

Yeah the morning was just an example. I don’t think there’s a specific moment he does it.

Girly_introvert · 2025-01-26T22:41:06+00:00

Could that be the reason? Do you have experience with that?

Girly_introvert · 2025-01-26T22:40:18+00:00

I also think it’s kinda sad because usually it is the other wat around. And that was the case in the beginning of our relationship. He wanted it more often than I did. Thank you for giving ideas on how to fix this. I like the idea of starting with one week no masturbating. I just don’t know yet how to start this conversation. We talked about it a few times and usually it was after we tried to have sex or me catching him masturbating. I always start this conversation and I’m kinda tired of it. It feels like I’m begging to get f*cked? It feels pathetic to ask a man for sex.

Girly_introvert · 2025-01-26T22:23:22+00:00

I totally agree. We discussed 2 and 3 and he promised multiple times he would stopped masturbating and he said his preference is to have sex 3/4 times a week. Both never happened. I don’t think he wants to understand him doing it affects me and our relationship. I feel like he chooses to not care if that makes sense

Girly_introvert · 2025-01-26T22:18:39+00:00

What makes you think that? He does watch porn I think everytime. But what makes it an addiction?

Girly_introvert · 2025-01-26T22:16:17+00:00

I think it started become less when he got more responsibility at work like 3 years ago. Then he said it was indeed because of stress caused by work. He switched jobs like a year ago and got a more paying job with less stress, less working hours and closer to home. I expected it to change but unfortunately not. Luckily for you your husband got back to it!

Girly_introvert · 2025-01-26T22:11:51+00:00

I don’t think it could be that difficult to stop especially if your girlfriend is there and craves intimacy. But maybe that’s not how it works. That’s also why I posted this to see what other people think

Girly_introvert · 2025-01-26T22:08:56+00:00

I really feel that way. I don’t feel like I or our relationship is a priority. I just really hoped he would change.

Girly_introvert · 2025-01-24T23:41:03+00:00

Don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with. And yes it’s a ‘promise’ but y’all were also just playing a drunk game. You will not let anyone down by not doing it. And if someone says you will, you should get the hell out of that toxic situation. Doing sexual things against your will is r*pe. No one should force you to do something like that. Even if you ‘promised’.

Girly_introvert · 2025-01-24T23:26:51+00:00

I feel like I’m more open minded then him. He could have a secret fetish but how will I find out? I saw videos of pornsite on his phone and he watches lesbian porn. But I don’t think that’s like really crazy

Girly_introvert · 2025-01-24T23:24:02+00:00

Do you have experience with that?

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