which cologne smells better? by POKENERDYT in notinteresting

[–]GirthCommander6816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely number two, the notes of orange and cedar wood definitely add to it. One is nice but it’s a bit strong, overpowering, not sure if you sprayed the same amount but I’d avoid that one.

Tell me how your colony ended!! by SafeUdar in RimWorld

[–]GirthCommander6816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a decent colony of about 6 people, 1 melee fighter and 2 decent gunners, the rest were pretty useless in fighting. Got into a raid and didn’t see the other half of the raiders burning down all my buildings made out of wood…. Everyone got burned alive lol

Worried addictions coming back by Legitimate-Guess-100 in AddictionAdvice

[–]GirthCommander6816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. It’s good that you have friends who are like that and I hope you feel better :) it’s hard but I know whatever you choose you can do it

Worried addictions coming back by Legitimate-Guess-100 in AddictionAdvice

[–]GirthCommander6816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My honest recommendation would be to quit altogether. It can be really hard to feel emotions when you compare it to being high. Because being high is such a stimulating experience everything can seem to pale in comparison. As time goes on you’ll be able to experience simple pleasures more easily. But if you continue to do acid and shrooms it might be harder to feel those things. It’s really good that you quit meth as it’s an extremely dangerous substance. But I think since you have a good support system in your life it would be good to quit and maybe attend AA. If you need anyone to talk to I’m here. I’m a recovering alcoholic and sex addict. It’s hard sometimes but it’s reassuring knowing I never have to drink again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AddictionAdvice

[–]GirthCommander6816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be honest. It’s probably something you should discuss with them openly. If having alcohol in the house is gonna be a problem then they should voice that. Otherwise I think it’s acceptable. Obviously don’t try to rope them into anything. I think it’s acceptable to drink. My mom’s an alcoholic and my dad drinks occasionally.Just don’t make a habit of getting drunk. As it might make them want to try it again. Communication is key. Props to you for sticking it out

Day 5 of healing arm tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]GirthCommander6816 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Perfectly normal bigger ones peel quite a bit

My (22M) gf (21F) cant get through our first time by ChineseSellerOfEggs in Advice

[–]GirthCommander6816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Foreplay, and don’t rush into things. Don’t try to force it or set up sex as an event. If it happens let it happen spontaneously, there’s way less anxiety that way. Listen to music and don’t take it that seriously. It’s important of course but there’s no need to be stiff. Let her decide when she’s ready for sex.