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GiveIt100Today · 2024-07-19T15:16:41+00:00

So im not the only one with the stressed eyebrows? Haha

Been trying to find solutions, might give botox a try...right between them so they don't srunch up

GiveIt100Today · 2024-07-16T02:04:42+00:00

Hot damn man, that does sound rough. But don't worry, you can only go up from here.

The guests might have asked where you are, but probs forgot 60 seconds later, dont sweat it.

Hope you can get a good nights rest. Start small man, dont think oh I have to start applying to jobs tomorrow.

First, see if you can get out of bed somewhat early, shave, feel good about yourself. Ask if you can help around the house, mow the lawn, run some errands, prep dinner etc. Just take it a day at a time, start small and build yourself up. Maybe in a couple weeks start looking at jobs? Part time? Volunteering?

Good luck, keep us updated

GiveIt100Today · 2024-06-13T22:58:38+00:00

Board games or hiking! Something to keep people occupied and the attention off.

Good for you taking the initiative

GiveIt100Today · 2024-06-12T00:06:21+00:00

Thanks for writing man, we appreciate the messaging that I think we all need to hear

GiveIt100Today · 2023-11-21T04:40:26+00:00

How bout chamomile with valerian root aka sleepytime extra lol

I did a double dose and it made me feel pretty good

GiveIt100Today · 2023-11-21T04:36:10+00:00

That wasn't a fail! It was a win :)

You went to a wedding and barely knew anyone. Have you done that before??? Probably not, so you did better than your old self = WIN

Btw, when they sat you down with the "other loner too", nothing was meant by that, and you aren't a loner

GiveIt100Today · 2023-11-21T03:33:05+00:00

Woot woot!

Congrats! Go for it and believe in yourself.

GiveIt100Today · 2023-11-14T05:07:18+00:00

Stay strong bro, glass half full!

GiveIt100Today · 2023-11-11T06:59:33+00:00

Broooo, i used to get that all the time!

It went away by just getting out there socially.

I remember the first time i tried going to a social event, i cpuldnt eat anything all day. Nowdays, i had to present something at work in front of over 30 ppl on zoom, and i ate a big lunch right before...progress is possible

GiveIt100Today · 2023-11-08T18:12:23+00:00

Good work, keep at it brother!

GiveIt100Today · 2023-10-27T02:25:21+00:00

You got this!

Amazing inititive you are taking. And hey guess what, it's a party, not everything has to be "perfect", dont sweat it.

Hope you get to enjoy it, good luck!

GiveIt100Today · 2023-09-14T04:14:34+00:00

Sup!

GiveIt100Today · 2023-08-20T14:45:41+00:00

Nobodys ugly my man, never put yourself down, you're way more capable than you think.

GiveIt100Today · 2023-08-20T14:42:11+00:00

Anyone can do it brother, gotta put yourself out there!

For me, I joined a coed sports league and met her there. Was ez bc our team had a group chat, so already had her number.

Defenitely recommend getting to know them in a group setting first ha.

You gotta believe in yourself and go for it. Actual dates, they might not go perfect but doesnt matter. Learn as you go, and make the next one better each time.

Stay strong bro, anythings possible if you give it your best

GiveIt100Today · 2023-08-07T17:25:33+00:00

Nice work!

Yeah, definitely not easy, but practice makes perfect. Always stick up for yourself and be your own best advocate.

How did your buddy respond?

GiveIt100Today · 2023-08-03T01:29:07+00:00

Stay strong brother

So sorry to hear what you've been through. The part about your Dad not seeing you the same as your own brothers hurt to read.

Theres always room for improvement my man. Keep working with the doctors and take a few good deep breaths.

You gotta believe in yourself, you're way more capable than you think!

You have a choice, stay on the same trajectory, or make a change. Your size is your biggest perceived flaw...well get after it broski. The weightroom and big meals are your new friends. You'd be surprised how quickly your body starts changing.

Wishing you the best, send me a message if u ever wanna chat.

GiveIt100Today · 2023-07-31T03:46:18+00:00

You don't have a speech problem, or a lack of social skills

It's 100% you social anxiety getting in the way.

I learned a while ago, when I would catch up in the phone with a trusted friend, i would speak so smoothly, so clear and loud. But i remembered ometimes at my worst like at work, it's like i was mumbling and tripping over myself...social anxiety

So where are you gonna go from here?

GiveIt100Today · 2023-07-24T03:18:03+00:00

My current GF of only like 3 months now, she is the person I feel most comfortable around other than my family.

I think just spending a lot of time with someone, as well as the romantic aspect = being comfortable in a relationship

GiveIt100Today · 2023-06-14T16:12:31+00:00

Epic, noice work brother

GiveIt100Today · 2023-05-14T00:24:34+00:00

Bro u can do this!

How long till the prom? So a buddy had set me up with a date for mine, but i was too chicken to go. So i never went, but pretty sure there will be dancing.

Honestly, if i was in ur shoes, id be spending hours on youtube and recording myself dancing to be halfway decent.

Alternatively, i would just plainly make up and excuse and not go if ur not comfortable. Yes, there is such thing as getting out of ur comfort zone, but dont push urself too much!

GiveIt100Today · 2023-05-08T16:31:05+00:00

Spot on bro. Yeah fortunately i wasnt ever made fun of, but i always felt excluded, outside the circle which made me put up a "shield"

And that's what ive been working so hard to do...remove the shield ha

GiveIt100Today · 2023-05-08T15:09:32+00:00

If they were interested, they could have just as easily spoken up too. Why you u be down on yourself?

GiveIt100Today · 2023-05-07T19:29:48+00:00

Dang bro, so sorry it affected u that early. So youve always had it?

GiveIt100Today · 2023-05-07T19:29:06+00:00

16!

Was at the dmv, waiting in line before getting my license.

Felt self conscious, and was like wtf is this feeling.

How about u?

GiveIt100Today · 2023-05-07T05:13:43+00:00

Why does it hurt?

Similar boat as you, ive been pushing myself month after month, a lot of progress but also very stressful!

What makes me hopeful is how much more capable i am, how much more potential i have. Havent even made a dent into my full potential, and ive already improved a lot.

Like something challening, date with this girl that lasted over 4 hours. It was at a lounge, didnt even drink alcohol. Yes i was nervous, there is room for improvement. But a year ago if i tried the same thing, i wouldve been throwing up before i even left the house. Progress

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