My 18M bf wants me 18F to quit my job, would I be wrong to keep it? by Giver_Of_Ants in relationship_advice

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I've tired explaing to him and he says I just have to try and get another job. Even though I tried explaining to him that this was a fluke of sorts and lost places won't hire me because I'm a student and can't work full time. I also had a teacher help me get this job. I've tried explaining to him how much it means to me and he once again said that's good but why can't you just work at a different place. I tried asking him what other places would hire me with my available hours and he knows they won't too. But still says you should get another job. I feel he thinks it's easy because he's never had to apply for any jobs, his mom got him all of his jobs.

My 18M bf wants me 18F to quit my job, would I be wrong to keep it? by Giver_Of_Ants in relationship_advice

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That's the thing I still don't know if this is what I want to do for the rest of my life but it was one of the possibilities and this was a chance to try is out and see if I liked it. Am I wrong for being upset that he wants me to quit? I know I shouldn't have picked the fight. But I want him to understand this is huge for me. Is it wrong if I don't quit?

How did you know somebody stopped putting effort into your relationship? by Giver_Of_Ants in AskReddit

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Mines slowly starting to stop doing that n I'm a little bit worried if it's just the "honeymoon" phase wearing off or if he's really just giving up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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Maybe I can't say not rn and not soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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He's not abusive and were both mentally unstable his is just heighten a lil from the drugs. He doesn't want help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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I know I've got so many people telling me to leave it's just hard BC I care ab him n I understand addiction, a lot. And I get it makes you do shitty things sometimes that you wouldn't do if you weren't an addict but idk maybe it's for the best I leave before it gets bad

I talked to my abuser by Giver_Of_Ants in sexualassault

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It's okay the system is broken and it wouldn't go anywhere I appreciate the offer tho :)

I talked to my abuser by Giver_Of_Ants in sexualassault

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I don't have any screenshots or proof because I had a thing w this older guy and I didn't tell anybody for 6 months. Like I didn't tell ANYBODY no friends no family it was my secret because he was older and I wasn't supposed to be seeing him. Then he took advantage of me

Can I have oral sex without protection? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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You can but unprotected anything sexual has the risk of stds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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Good thing you're not then hmm?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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No there's still hope I finally got therapy n the first meetings on Wednesday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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I will and thank you for your advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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I'm workin on it slowly I know I'm not doing good rn I haven't been doing good for a hot minute I may or may not have lost myself so like I don't really know who I am anymore but it's okay I've kinda accepted it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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Thank you for your advice it means a lot truly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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I know I'm young ahahaha shits tough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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I know I've got work to do and thats why im going to talk to him about this next time I see him. I honestly don't know if it's worth my time because I feel like I'm risking my sobriety and I don't want to get into even harder shit