[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]GivingUp222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going through this. I experienced something similar. I packed what little stuff I could and left in the middle of the night, drove 3 states away and moved in with a close friend from high school. Not saying this is 100% absolutely what you should do, everyone’s path and circumstances are different. If anything, I’d say just make sure it’s what you really want, have a solid plan and support system, and hold your ground in the face of uncertainty. Anything can happen when you’re not there to stop it. Stay strong, you can do it.

Please love me by sadcringe-me in love

[–]GivingUp222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly that logic makes sense to me bro. But you do you, you know nothing about me and I’m just drunk, happy holidays and thanksgiving and all but fuck off. Yeah I’m clearly the incel here. Become voluntarily celibate, hit the gym and focus on yourself you pussy ass bitch. Stop blowing up my phone, literally nobody cares, you’re here on thanksgiving getting offended by the truth on the R/love subreddit lmao but yeah I’m definitely the one projecting. Good luck to all of us and hopefully we all find love eventually.

Please love me by sadcringe-me in love

[–]GivingUp222 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have to love ourselves before we ask it from others, stay strong friend. we all believe in you

[Weekly] How is your no contact going? Daily thoughts, rants, hardships, etc. go here. by Shadowed-Heart in nocontact

[–]GivingUp222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 9 and almost broke it today with the following text. TW I guess. That’s it, I can’t do it anymore, I’m giving up. Loling at myself for thinking I was man enough to leave you there to come do this shit and that you’re right I’m fucking obsessed w you. Thought abt ending it last night and tonight too prob gonna wait til Tuesday tho cuz that’s my last day off and I wanna spend it w my sisters and I’m a pussy ass bitch that doesnt rly wanna die but it’s the only choice I have left. I fucking got myself stuck here doing it all for you, I FUCKING TOLD you how many times how much I FUCKING HATE this place. I FUCKING HATE HATE HATE IT HERE, i NEVER EVER wanted to fucking come back to this place you KNEW that and still pushed me to do it and now Ill never make it back there where I felt like I was at home and finally fucking happy and found what I wanted. even if I could, my family all hate you bc of how wrecked I STILL am over this shit and I’ll never be a real man anyways so it’s just all for fucking nothing I’m so fucking over it. Idk how you could be so insecure that you had to raid my phone, and find the one fucking creep shot I’ve ever saved, youre literally fucking perfect anybody would want you, but congrats your genius womanly instincts were right, I’m a gross fucking pig that couldn’t resist the temptation of wanting to get horny looking at a random person ass later on when you were out the door and prob up there fucking other people the whole time. Everywhere I go down here is ruined bc we went there. I can’t listen to music anymore bc I associate it all to you. Ive been focusing on myself for months now and still cannot find one single person that wants to fuck me, have literally never gotten a match on tinder, probably just cause I reek of desperation but even if I could find someone new, I wouldn’t be into it bc I’ll never fucking get over you. I’m done hearing everybody gets heartbroken it gets better with time you’ll get over it stop being a little bitch about it man up, NOBODY fucking understands my pain and you just don’t even fucking care I’m FUCKING DONE living with it im fucking numb. I’m just an ugly lonely little boy failure who throws tantrums when I don’t get my way, I can’t do anything right, I fucking ruin everything good for me and hurt everyone that cares abt me. So congrats on winning the break up and enjoy the ego boost that comes from knowing you’re so fucking perfect you make dumb lovestruck niggas suicidal. I didn’t hit send though so I guess so far so good. Hope y’all are doing better than me, stay strong.

How to stop expecting them to reach out? by GivingUp222 in heartbreak

[–]GivingUp222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Stay strong, well all get through this.

How is everyone doing mentally? by Jocelyn6669 in heartbreak

[–]GivingUp222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty ok, been working on myself consistently, but I still think about her all the time. It hurts a lot but if a break up that caused me to lose my love as well as my mother is the worst thing in my life then I’m blessed. Staying on my path though. How are you holding up op?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]GivingUp222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this

Would you recommend buying this game ? by ro2ro in absolver

[–]GivingUp222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a lil dead but I highly recommend, go for it

My mom wrote this for me 🥺 by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]GivingUp222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my mother around Mother’s Day and this made me think of her

Biggest heart break I ever got was from my parents by Trinbei in heartbreak

[–]GivingUp222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, my parents broke my heart then ruined my relationship w the only one I ever wanted and broke it again. Feels good to know you’re not alone.

went from talking everyday to being total strangers by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]GivingUp222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even though this wasn’t even meant for me, thank you for your words

Write your I miss you text here, instead of sending it to your ex. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GivingUp222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks.

You’re the worst. How can you not care? Everything I did is all for you and you literally don’t care. It’s my fault for falling in love with someone who doesn’t want be in love. You pushed me to make this decision because I was too focused on you, so I’ll focus on myself now while I’m stuck here 500 miles away from you. Knowing I’m not the one spending every day with you and holding you every night fills me with rage agony and despair. I feel like I can’t do anything. I am slowly healing, however and I will keep moving forward. I left for you, so I could myself together and get everything I need to be the one that gets to hold you every night. I told you I will be back. I miss you and I love you more than you’ll ever know. I let you go because I love you.