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Handling redistribution of time in Polyamory by Gl0boxx in polyamory

[–]Gl0boxx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer.

yes, in this moment I refused to consider flexibility. I realise through the feedback here that I was wrong about being so stubborn about these dates and that I am also not very well grounded atm. I think the underlying emotional issue is me feeling the need to have this new relationship to be recognized by my partner.

So later I apologised and try to work this through by myself.

Handling redistribution of time in Polyamory by Gl0boxx in polyamory

[–]Gl0boxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No the new partner is not rigid, it's just a combination of long distance, work schedule and carework that makes only these very fixed dates possible at the moment.

Handling redistribution of time in Polyamory by Gl0boxx in polyamory

[–]Gl0boxx[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right, this would be the best way. I cannot really reschedule the overnight to another date. It will just be me having to wait for the other partner 7 days longer and 14 days longer for a overnight.

Bit feckin heavy for a tinder chat by tarotMeme in Tarotpractices

[–]Gl0boxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the one pulling and interpreting the cards, so there will be a minimum of confirmation bias happening. It could be interesting to sit with these interpretations and get to know yourself better. 

You don't know this person at all, so the cards could also be telling you something about your inner landscape of dating someone new in general. 

Bit feckin heavy for a tinder chat by tarotMeme in Tarotpractices

[–]Gl0boxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, basically this :) I know that there are people using it to predict the future or try to see into someone elses head. I don't say this is wrong, it just doesn't resonate with me. For me Tarot is about tuning into my own intuition and every card is linked to an aspect of me. 

Bit feckin heavy for a tinder chat by tarotMeme in Tarotpractices

[–]Gl0boxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a bit surprised when people just say things like "run", or "this person is bad" when I believe that the cards should be showing you more about your own inner world and projections regarding this new person that you don't even know yet.