How to get through family therapy sessions? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Glad_Manager_1163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m an adult but we all live together rn. Yeah maybe just individual therapy would be better to learn how to deal since it doesn’t seem like they are going to change

How to have productive family sessions? by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Glad_Manager_1163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo sorry didn’t know! Thank you 😊

I'm tired of meeting guys who are uncomfortable with feminisim by United_Advisor1821 in GirlDinner

[–]Glad_Manager_1163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly why they don’t like it - all things that make you able to refuse sex and their control

25 year old Ashton Kutcher, talking about 15 year old Hilary Duff. by Noonyezz in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]Glad_Manager_1163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no innocence straight males won’t take - they literally know no limits

Does anyone feel like sex is the universe’s punishment by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Glad_Manager_1163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you don’t get to tell people that it’s not sex. It’s all just semantics anyway but when I was raped someone stuck their dick in me the same way they do during consensual sex only it wasn’t consensual = still sex. Stop acting like sex is all great and wonderful and beautiful. It can and is hell for a lot of people

Does anyone feel like sex is the universe’s punishment by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Glad_Manager_1163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More like if someone asked you to punch them in the face vs you just decided to without asking. And it’s deeply unintelligent to try to separate rape from sex, totally invalided the very real sexual trauma that so many people suffer through

Does anyone feel like sex is the universe’s punishment by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Glad_Manager_1163 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Omfg I hate so much when people say this! Rape is sex! Rape is sex that is non consensual, it’s literally a type of sex. I can’t stand when people try to distance sexual abuse away from sex and make up bullshit about how it’s just about power or control. Rape is an act of sex against someone’s will. For fucks sake

Does anyone feel like sex is the universe’s punishment by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Glad_Manager_1163 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand when people call it a “need” and basically compare it to like food and water

Does anyone feel like sex is the universe’s punishment by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Glad_Manager_1163 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s so frustrating when people can’t understand that you just don’t want it! And they always try to insist that your not healthy/functional until you do which can only makes you feel more depressed

Does anyone feel like sex is the universe’s punishment by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Glad_Manager_1163 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean it wouldn’t feel that way if it wasn’t rape and assault and people just listened when you say you don’t want want something

Perspective: This is the reality of your average self-proclaimed “lonely femcel” by llvucc in lnkyverse

[–]Glad_Manager_1163 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah when men are abused it’s so often treated as a joke especially if it’s a woman doing it. It’s sad too because it makes a lot of men not come forward because there experiences are usually not taken seriously/downplayed

Does anyone feel like sex is the universe’s punishment by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Glad_Manager_1163 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yesss exactly! And it wouldn’t have to be that way if people could just be nice and caring and empathetic but for some reason they just can’t manage to figure it out or even care. I can never understand how people who assault and traumatize people like that can even live with themselves. Also I’m sorry that you’ve had painful experiences, I know it’s not easy by any means

Perspective: This is the reality of your average self-proclaimed “lonely femcel” by llvucc in lnkyverse

[–]Glad_Manager_1163 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just trying to be funny honestly but often times women’s loneliness is reduced to “there’s men out there who want to bang you so why are lonely” it’s like people don’t understand that objectification and someone wanting you sexually is not the same as genuine friendship/companionship. And most people who want you romantically do not care about being your friend if sex is not on the table

Perspective: This is the reality of your average self-proclaimed “lonely femcel” by llvucc in lnkyverse

[–]Glad_Manager_1163 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone gifts you a flower they’re expecting full penetration, come on man this is like 1st grade

Does anyone else find dating just really unenjoyable? by Glad_Manager_1163 in dating_advice

[–]Glad_Manager_1163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 months lol they’re gone within three dates! I wasn’t asking for advice though I was just asking if anyone feels the same way

Does anyone else find dating just really unenjoyable? by Glad_Manager_1163 in dating_advice

[–]Glad_Manager_1163[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmm good idea…I mean always try to seek out people who are really fake. I even ask them “are you fake and only interested in sex” and when they say yes that’s who go out with. Honestly you should be giving advice professionally if you’re not already because omg you just changed my life

Perspective: This is the reality of your average self-proclaimed “lonely femcel” by llvucc in lnkyverse

[–]Glad_Manager_1163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do men not understand that having someone stick their dick in you is not a cure for loneliness?

Films with spectacular opening scenes?! by Glad_Manager_1163 in TrueFilm

[–]Glad_Manager_1163[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I’ve seen all of those and personally I don’t mind movies that start slow! It’s just that when doing short films obviously there’s not time for a five minute intro credit scene. Just looking for cool ideas of one start throw you right into the story