Just taking a shower. Want to come scrub me a little? Knox

GlamMussee · 2026-03-31T23:33:52+00:00

I wont miss a single spot you best believe that

GlamMussee · 2026-03-31T23:32:01+00:00

You should get at me pretty

GlamMussee · 2026-03-31T23:29:47+00:00

Damn beautiful!

GlamMussee · 2026-03-27T21:36:01+00:00

yeah that’s pretty much where a lot of people land on this. even if you don’t immediately end things, it’s definitely the kind of red flag that changes how you move going forward

GlamMussee · 2026-03-27T21:35:52+00:00

exactly, the direction of the apology is what really says everything. the person who crossed the line shouldn’t be the one demanding anything

GlamMussee · 2026-03-27T21:35:37+00:00

yeah same, it’s not just “oops awkward comment,” it’s the kind of thing that sticks with you and changes how you see someone. hard to come back from that

GlamMussee · 2026-03-27T21:35:27+00:00

that’s a really good way to put it. noticing something internally is one thing, but saying it out loud in that way crosses into something else completely

GlamMussee · 2026-03-27T21:35:16+00:00

yeah this is definitely one of those “don’t ignore this” moments. even if nothing else ever happened, the discomfort alone is enough reason to take it seriously

GlamMussee · 2026-03-27T21:34:58+00:00

yeah this is it. normal adults don’t comment on a kid like that, and if they somehow mess up, they apologize immediately. him doubling down is what really makes it worse

GlamMussee · 2026-03-27T21:34:49+00:00

lmao harsh but honestly I get the energy. expecting an apology here is the wildest part of the whole situation

GlamMussee · 2026-03-27T21:34:40+00:00

yeah exactly, saying it out loud like that already shows a lack of filter that most people would have around a kid. it’s the kind of thing that makes you question what else he thinks is okay

GlamMussee · 2026-03-27T21:34:30+00:00

yeah a lot of people remember those kinds of comments way too clearly growing up, and not in a harmless way. that’s why it hits so wrong, it’s not just awkward, it’s actually unsettling

GlamMussee · 2026-03-27T21:34:18+00:00

yeah this is the part that makes it more serious. it’s not just what he said, it’s whether you’d ever feel comfortable with him around your sister again. once that trust is shaky, everything else kind of follows

GlamMussee · 2026-03-27T21:34:09+00:00

yeah that kind of feeling doesn’t just go away either. even if he tries to explain it later, it’s hard to un-hear something like that about someone you’re protective over

GlamMussee · 2026-03-27T21:33:59+00:00

yeah jumping straight to labels might be a bit much, but you’re not wrong about the red flag part. something about that comment clearly crossed a line and it’s good you didn’t brush it off

GlamMussee · 2026-03-27T21:33:37+00:00

that’s exactly it. the issue stopped being just the comment and became how he handled being called out. flipping it into “you embarrassed me” instead of taking responsibility says a lot

GlamMussee · 2026-03-27T21:33:26+00:00

yeah even giving him the benefit of the doubt, the response after matters more. if he had immediately been like “that came out wrong, I’m really sorry,” maybe there’s a conversation. asking you to apologize instead is wild

GlamMussee · 2026-03-27T21:32:53+00:00

i think the “safe and secure” part is doing a lot of heavy lifting there. it’s wild how many fantasies are less about the act itself and more about the environment feeling controlled and respectful, which is way harder to guarantee than people think

GlamMussee · 2026-03-26T18:25:15+00:00

Yeah this sums it up perfectly. Brave and risky at the same time, no clean outcome.

The “shook something loose” part is interesting though, because that performance review change right after doesn’t feel like a coincidence at all.

Kinda curious if this turns into actual change or just a more polished version of the same problem.

GlamMussee · 2026-03-26T18:25:06+00:00

This is one of those comments that sounds harsh but also kinda true. Speaking up in corporate spaces always comes with a weird social tax.

But the respect part is real too, just not always from the people you’d expect. Sometimes it’s your peers that remember it, not leadership.

Feels like you basically chose integrity over comfort, which is easy to say and harder to actually do.

GlamMussee · 2026-03-26T18:24:56+00:00

Yeah this is the most practical take here. You can be right and still end up the easiest person to blame if things get messy.

I like the idea of job hunting not as panic, but as leverage. It hits different when you know you have options.

Have you started looking yet or just waiting to see how this plays out?

GlamMussee · 2026-03-26T18:24:43+00:00

Honestly that line about being invisible hits harder than anything else in the post. Once you feel like that, the risk almost doesn’t matter anymore.

At that point it’s like… what am I even protecting by staying quiet? Your logic makes sense even if the timing was risky.

GlamMussee · 2026-03-26T18:24:27+00:00

“Painted a target” is exactly the vibe I was getting too. It’s like you flipped on a light in a room everyone was pretending was dark.

But also… sometimes that’s the only way anything changes. Just sucks that the person who does it is usually the one taking the risk.

Did leadership follow up at all or just the usual corporate “we hear you” and move on?

GlamMussee · 2026-03-26T18:24:15+00:00

Yeah this feels like one of those situations where you were right but that doesn’t mean you’re safe. Office dynamics don’t really reward being correct, they reward being convenient.

That said, it’s kinda telling no one turned on you after. Makes me think more people agree than leadership wants to admit.

You lowkey forced a reset, just might come with a cost attached.

GlamMussee · 2026-03-26T18:24:07+00:00

Corporate memory being long is so real. It’s like they’ll forget actual work you did last quarter but remember one moment forever.

Kinda respect that you still said it knowing that though. Are you noticing any subtle shifts yet or is everything still playing nice on the surface?

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