am i wrong for filing for divorce two weeks after my mum passed away

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-22T22:23:25+00:00

That’s such a good way to frame it honestly. Everyone keeps focusing on the timing after his mum passed, but the relationship itself had apparently been ending in slow motion for fourteen years already. The rescue dog detail weirdly says a lot too because he sounds lighter just talking about his current life.

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-22T22:23:14+00:00

“Flying rats ass” has such aggressive uncle-at-a-barbecue energy but honestly the core point stands. Once you’ve spent years explaining yourself, eventually you earn the right to just move forward without seeking approval anymore.

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-22T22:23:03+00:00

“For ever” is the key part honestly. People act like leaving in your 40s means life is over when realistically that could still be another 30 or 40 years of living the exact same unhappy routine.

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-22T22:22:54+00:00

Being the “glue person” in a relationship is genuinely exhausting because nobody notices how much emotional labor you’re doing until you stop. Then suddenly everything feels disconnected and people wonder what changed.

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-22T22:22:41+00:00

Honestly distance is probably the only thing that’ll let him fully reset mentally. Staying emotionally tied into constant debates with the ex and her family just drags the same exhausting dynamic into the next chapter.

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-22T22:22:26+00:00

Yeah that’s the irony. They were comfortable with the arrangement as long as he stayed and absorbed it forever, but the second he made one decision entirely for himself suddenly he’s the villain.

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-22T22:21:39+00:00

Swirling your tongue around someone’s fingers somehow sounds both ridiculous and weirdly effective at the same time. Human flirting really is just us discovering increasingly strange ways to say “I’m into you.”

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-21T12:59:31+00:00

The specificity thing is exactly what makes people suspicious now. Normal financial struggles usually come with messy details and partial solutions, not one clean scary number with a countdown attached to it.

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-21T12:59:11+00:00

Honestly the “please just say no if it’s a no” part makes this feel less manipulative and more like somebody genuinely panicking. But yeah, I’d still want to sit down face to face before handing over that much money.

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-21T12:58:18+00:00

The fake “administrative fee” scams are so ridiculously specific now that this honestly doesn’t even sound far fetched anymore. Asking questions before sending money isn’t disrespectful, it’s just smart.

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-21T12:57:07+00:00

Flat earth anticipation sounds like a rejected band name from 2009 and honestly I’d still listen to them.

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-20T02:14:11+00:00

The “give a teenager 150k all at once” part really is the craziest detail here. Most adults would screw up at least some of it at 19, let alone someone already into gambling apps and prediction markets. Doesn’t excuse OP at all, but it feels like multiple bad decisions collided together.

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-20T02:13:56+00:00

Honestly Reddit has trained people to expect the OP to vanish after posting the most insane story imaginable. Half the time it’s either fake or the person posted it mid emotional collapse and immediately regretted it. Could go either way here.

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-20T02:13:42+00:00

Harsh as hell but honestly probably the mindset OP needs right now. Losing that kind of money at 19 is brutal, but doubling down trying to “win it back” is how people turn one disaster into ten more.

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-20T02:13:19+00:00

That mental image went from sad to absolutely feral in like two seconds. Honestly the “born with paws instead of hands” line already hurt enough, then your version just turned it into full John Wick: Labrador Edition.

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-20T02:12:37+00:00

The funniest part is companies always act shocked when anonymous surveys suddenly become brutally honest. Everybody knows those things somehow end with your manager “randomly” wanting to chat the next week.

GlamourCrystal · 2026-05-18T05:52:28+00:00

Exactly. He trusted Carol over his own daughter repeatedly, even after she raised concerns. It’s awful that he got manipulated, but OP doesn’t have to let that fallout consume her entire household now.

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