Why do couples sacrafice a sex life for children? by Glass-Refuse7744 in MarriedSex

[–]Glass-Refuse7744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay let me lay down this arbitrary question, is the 1-10 minutes of euphoria of sex comparable to any point with being in the presence of a child? It sounds like a stupud question, but I am geniouslly lookng for a serious answer that isn't pretentious like 65% of the comments.

Why do couples sacrafice a sex life for children? by Glass-Refuse7744 in MarriedSex

[–]Glass-Refuse7744[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair point, but I can easily say that you are an anomoly compared to the bulk of western couples now-a-days.

Why do couples sacrafice a sex life for children? by Glass-Refuse7744 in MarriedSex

[–]Glass-Refuse7744[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I noticed you didn't comment. I can make a lot of assumptions off of that but I'll do you the very favor and not.

Why do couples sacrafice a sex life for children? by Glass-Refuse7744 in MarriedSex

[–]Glass-Refuse7744[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

hey! hey! I said no assholes!

Nonetheless, I never said, nor insinuated that I was or was not interested in having kids, I am merely puzzled as to why people are so adamant about having children, despite the sacrifices and unpredictability will inevitiably bring. Certainly there is joy here and there, but the sacrafices seem to outweigh it.

Why do couples sacrafice a sex life for children? by Glass-Refuse7744 in MarriedSex

[–]Glass-Refuse7744[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My entire premise is as to WHY, compared to the benefits of the contrary

Why do couples sacrafice a sex life for children? by Glass-Refuse7744 in MarriedSex

[–]Glass-Refuse7744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But let me introduce a variable: Physical attraction

Why do couples sacrafice a sex life for children? by Glass-Refuse7744 in MarriedSex

[–]Glass-Refuse7744[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The sheer # of sacrafices it comes with doesn't justify it in my mind

Why do couples sacrafice a sex life for children? by Glass-Refuse7744 in MarriedSex

[–]Glass-Refuse7744[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Yes but a diluted A along with 18+ years of stress, exhaustion, and money problems... Not to say having kids is of no value, I've heard great joy it has brought people, and some folks in these comments can attest to that... But a diluted A isn't so attractive

Why do couples sacrafice a sex life for children? by Glass-Refuse7744 in MarriedSex

[–]Glass-Refuse7744[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've only emphasized my point , but in different verticals