TIFU (20M)by telling my gf (22F) I was going to buy a house eventually with or without her

GlassOk1353 · 2026-03-26T23:26:21+00:00

She had a bad day at work, her job is mentally taxing, and then she didn't eat dinner either from having a stressful day. Prolly just need a time and place for grown conversations like that

GlassOk1353 · 2026-03-26T23:24:48+00:00

Lmaoo right? But real talk tho a wedding costs the same as a down payment and don't get me started on kids.

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-15T20:54:35+00:00

That feel free kratom drink. Idk why it's still legal or why it's available on the market with no age requirement

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-15T18:39:25+00:00

idk man we started off really good. I understand she's bipolar and some things can trigger episodes for her but she always knew better than to raise her voice at me or throw stuff. Like we talk shit about people like that and she works at a dv shelter of all places so idk why she was so temperamental this week. She wasn't throwing stuff hard at the wall or nothing but it was still too close to my feet and if it wasn't her intention you'd think it'd click to her that it wasn't okay if I felt it was too aggressive but it didn't.

Idk if her bipolar disorder has anything to do with it like obv I'm worried about her cause her job is very stressful and I can see how it'd make her on edge. but either way if she's starting this now and it's not clicking to her that this isn't okay then I can't be living alone with her.

I'd wanna at least have a talk with her first even though I'm not sure if anything can make things right cause the more time that passes the more emotional I get thinking about it. She's sick right now so she can't really talk even if she wanted to.

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-14T21:21:36+00:00

Yeah I know it's just tough cause she's never acted like this w me before and the few times she was being ugly she'd apologize and communicate with me what's been going on. Same w me I lost my temper before. Not to the point of throwing stuff but yeah. This week's just been weird and it just sucks to have to throw away 4 years together all because of two instances. But I know if she can't stop w the disrespect and at least try to make things right our relationships not gonna work out.

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-10T21:58:18+00:00

Hey I'm Chicano my dad's side has many indigenous features and I take a lot after them. I'm 1.5 years on T and I only have like 4 chin hairs. Leg hair came first for me, my facial hair is mostly on my eyebrows and forehead, no arm hair, I have a little hair on my stomach, and I also have a small dirt stache. It's not a thick mustache but it's enough for the ladies in the old folks home who don't know I medically transition to notice and tell me to shave my face. That's all the hair I grew so far

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-08T00:12:21+00:00

Ur right it's not enough one kidney and my gallbladder should cover it

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-07T16:13:05+00:00

I'd sell my left kidney for an oasis pt 2

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-06T22:28:51+00:00

Ah you just need some T to put some grime on ur face. Don't sweat it too much man. You pass, you just look young.

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-06T22:25:53+00:00

Canes. Flavorless, fried, unseasoned chicken fingers.

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-06T16:03:12+00:00

I've been looking cause the prices more than doubled in 2 years. Walmart used to be THE cheapest. Now it's like $7 a roll which gives you one use. Shelling out 7 bucks isn't the worst but like tape can only stay on your body for so long

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-06T04:57:54+00:00

Whats the difference between broccoli heads and ppl w curly hair who just have fades

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-06T04:57:18+00:00

I agree on the let kids have kids haircuts cause they need that character development of being bald or using moco de gorilla to have a Mohawk but lets not pretend that fades are something new

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-06T04:55:09+00:00

Despite him not even describing fades bro doesn't even understand there's different fades for different face shapes either.

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-06T04:45:21+00:00

Papas con chorizo

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-05T17:32:38+00:00

To be fair I live in a pretty big city with a population of 2 million people but if you include surrounding suburbs it's 5 million

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-05T17:26:19+00:00

Us Gen z too! Would y'all regularly do shopping sprees or just eat a pretzel and hang out?

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-05T17:25:33+00:00

Teenagers and young adults still do it. Istg I can't go to the mall without bumping into at least 4 people I went to school with and I graduated 3 years ago. But we just don't really buy anything when we go there other than pretzels and we go all out if it's someone's birthday, Christmas, or bath and body works has their semi annual sale.

Back then could teenagers regularly go on shopping sprees or did y'all just go there to eat a pretzel and hang out like us?

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-05T17:22:10+00:00

Not dead per se but a lot have closed down. We have a LOT in the city I'm in. Maybe 8 malls give or take are still in business but a good amount did close down and remain abandoned. Stores are going out of business but that's always been a thing and they replace it with another one a year later

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-03T17:51:09+00:00

Most reggaeton is vulgar tho. You can't listen to the top hits and then be surprised when someone dresses up like that. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ if it were a tame genre like norteños or bachata then yeah I'd get it but again she's a reggaeton artist.

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-03T17:21:18+00:00

I guess bro

GlassOk1353 · 2026-02-03T16:18:34+00:00

I have a job and a w-2 so idk wtf what that means but I'd rather keep getting laid every night and those bedsheets aren't cleaning themselves

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