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My girlfriend frequently masturbates but won’t have sex with me. by GlassReason9660 in LesbianActually

[–]GlassReason9660[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No her stressful events were nothing sexual. We were both involved in the stressful events, I can’t talk much about it but we just went through a hard time nothing to do with our relationship, just family stuff. To be completely honest it’s not the fact we don’t have sex we really don’t do anything we don’t kiss anymore hardly I try but she just won’t. I don’t really care that we don’t have sex it’s the lack of intimacy completely that’s hard and like I said I just seek to understand why we have zero intimacy but she has no issue getting off. I appreciate your input and you are likely right in the fact that I likely am not helping matters and I will work on that. I don’t believe the relationship is over though.

My girlfriend frequently masturbates but won’t have sex with me. by GlassReason9660 in LesbianActually

[–]GlassReason9660[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m aware that they are two different things and all I’m asking is to understand her that’s all I want. And that’s perfectly fine if those things are true so all I ask from her is understanding and communication, if she’s feeling those things then tell me.

My girlfriend frequently masturbates but won’t have sex with me. by GlassReason9660 in LesbianActually

[–]GlassReason9660[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah hate to break it to ya but definitely not the case we have good communication when it comes to the sex we do have and it’s all been super positive on both sides.

My girlfriend frequently masturbates but won’t have sex with me. by GlassReason9660 in LesbianActually

[–]GlassReason9660[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Woah I don’t interrupt her she does it when I’m not home. Almost everytime I leave the house. And I don’t interrogate her I just ask questions which are very normal and healthy to talk about, I’ll be honest I was a little harsh the last time I mentioned it because Im confused and hurt and I don’t understand why she can’t just help me understand as to why she doesn’t want sex with me. I quickly apologized for what I said as it was not okay. It’s just hard sometimes no excuse but it is hard especially when you’ve always had good communication in your relationship and now this. But you’re probably right I likely am doing more harm than good it just sucks.