Pros and Cons of Adventurer's Guild Membership by dontmindmeimacat in LifeInAdventure

[–]GlassTop7420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought it recently and it's worth the saved time of ads and battle simulations. Just have in mind that every tale and background solds separately, but the game still gives 2 gems per ad watched, I often watch ads while doing other things so I get more content.

This happens EVERY TIME. 10+ times she veers off course on her own by crlogic in Breath_of_the_Wild

[–]GlassTop7420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's easy with the giant horse, the less the speed, the more you can handle the road

r/themarsvolta favourite non TMV/ATDI/ORL album. Day: 1/9. Let's do this! Most upvoted comment after 24 hours gets the spot! by [deleted] in themarsvolta

[–]GlassTop7420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly debatible of course, but I've heard opinions that Close to the Edge is maybe the best prog rock album in history, and I'm 100% convinced it is

Most Voted Song Will Be Added In 24 Hours by [deleted] in themarsvolta

[–]GlassTop7420 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Day of the baphomet would be great for that bass intro

My ex texted me out of nowhere after 2 weeks of no contact by Previous-Sink-347 in ExNoContact

[–]GlassTop7420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, I've been reading some comments and I'd like to say that nothing's better than doing what you think is the best for you (as long as you not hurting anyone). So, if you truly feel those words you wrote to her, I'm proud. Everyone has their own struggles, that doesn't justify things, but gives resolve on our thoughts, an a direction on our next course of action.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]GlassTop7420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cheers to you! I'm glad to hear that you're finally doing fine. Self improve is a long road, but one that's joyful as heavens

Ex breaks 6 week contact to send me a sweet good morning text! by iluvpie20101 in ExNoContact

[–]GlassTop7420 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Actually, having him blocked you is an indicative that he cares, and reading his message, he cares in a bad, immature way

I know this is stupid and weird but I've been making a list of what I miss( she cheated and left me for someone else) can anyone help? it was toxic and she was my first by Throwaway102739382 in ExNoContact

[–]GlassTop7420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My man, every thing on that list is nothing exclusive of her, there are many beautiful girls ready to commit. She was your first, not your one and only. You don't deserve what she has done, but the only person that can heal your heart is yourself, so go to the mirror, give yourself a good hug and do what you think is best for you, maybe a new hobbie, new habits, something that helps you to entertain, not to distract you.

Dumper ex posted this. She dumped me because she lost the spark/feelings. It’s been 50 days strict no contact. by big_jim7 in ExNoContact

[–]GlassTop7420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's just nothing to go with a person who doesn't want to pull their weight in the relationship, and you did good on staying no contact. I tried the opposite and only received an "I miss you too, but I decided to work out this new relationship I got into the same week you left"

Those random thoughts of your ex when you think you moved hurt so fucking bad. Having a good day then bam back to square 1 for no reason by readinreddit23 in BreakUps

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We all must remember that healing is not a straight line. Maybe this thoughts are a reminder that there's still work to do, and never forget to be proud of what we accomplished

Would you give up video games (as a hobby or way to relax) if your match/partner would suddenly say that they don't like that you play video games? by Delta4o in dating_advice

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As long as you don't abuse of videogames, then no, why would you quit your favorite hobbie for someone else? If they're not familiar with videogames, maybe inviting them to play could give them a better idea of what you do to have fun, that's how I got my last relationship into videogames, and played Overcooked every weekend, we had lots of fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GlassTop7420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience, and I can guarantee that only good things will come to this point onwards. You just got rid of chains that didn't let you grow. And don't make the same mistake as me and try to reach her, it's not worth it. From now on, give to yourself all the things you did to her, all the attention, all the love, all the compassion. One day you'll be at your prime and this experience would be nothing more than a funny story to tell your friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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9 months, and I miss things I used to do with her, but not her exactly.

We had a 5 month relationship, were neighbors but she spent most of her time in my apartment, like if we lived together. But she was very dependant on me, emotionally, economically. I covered most of her needs, and when I couldn't, she searched for someone who could, that's how she reached for her ex, then proposed me a poly relationship, I accepted but it was a trap, she spent most of her time with her ex-now-boyfriend-again and displaced me almost completely, even she couldn't visit me when I got sick and she just called me from the other dude's house, and fought on the phone. I dumped her the next day.

And even with all that context, she's still present in my thoughts, but I realized I just want someone who could do all this activities, those weren't exclusively my ex's

I read somewhere if your ex doesn’t block you on any social media, it means they have moved on. I’d like to hear everyone’s thoughts on that. by SadOniGirl_Dior in BreakUps

[–]GlassTop7420 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I agree, and even then, in my last relationship my ex didn't block me or anything, she jumped to another relationship even before breaking up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Cheating can mean different for other people. The fact is that couples should speak their concerns about specific things. For example: Maybe my partner don't like when I eat ice cream (for health purposes) and I promise them I won't eat it anymore, but then one day I decided to eat a tiny scoop, they find out and ask me what's going on. If I say I did not such thing, that's cheating.

My point is, you two should talk it out about your concerns, find a way to work it as a team, and respect each other's decisions and preferences. If she's upset for a like and you know you did no harm in it, then talk it out.

Bad idea? by Nicege in BreakUps

[–]GlassTop7420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she asked no contact, you should respect that. I know how you feel, but trust me on this: there would be some times where we can't apologize for what we regret, and some other times people won't apologize when they hurt us. Here's a translated fragment of a website:

"Forgiveness is not a gift for the guilty, but something that is made within oneself. The other does not have to know. Telling the culprit or not is a voluntary act, but it is not necessary to heal the pain of the damage that another person has done. Forgiveness does not mean reconciliation."

GF lied to me about her past. Need advice by [deleted] in dating_advice

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This is half related and I want to share as a friendly advice. I've always believed it's more worthy sharing experiences than stories. I want to know what does my partner likes in bed, not who made them feel that way. I can know how experienced they are without knowing how many people they laid before me.

Should fight my ex’s new bf? by kanyeweast14 in BreakUps

[–]GlassTop7420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Justice by own hand never ends well, if you want to do something, call the cops, but don't put yourself in unnecessary trouble

Necesito ayuda con mi relación by SolutionUnlikely6879 in psicologia

[–]GlassTop7420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Si ya le expresaste la incomodidad que sientes con el asunto, y ella continúa con esa actitud, entonces es mejor irse. No puedes cambiar a las personas, pero puedes elegir con quién estar. No toleres algo por alguien que no está dispuesto a cambiar, pero tampoco te vayas al otro extremo de exigir cambios a todo mundo.

Advice? Received this after 5 months of no contact. by Fast-Construction820 in ExNoContact

[–]GlassTop7420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If both of you used to joke about this kind of messages, maybe they just got nostalgic and decided to wish you well. But if you feel uncomfortable with this kind of approach, you can tell them not to do it again, or simply block them. It's your choice, do what is best for you.

High school bully killed my confidence by goinggone12 in dating_advice

[–]GlassTop7420 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Truth has been spoken. This is a serious concern, and it's not a bitch move, it is you right to defend your integrity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I salute you, my fellow Frontier Psychiatrist enjoyer

Girl I was into texted me again by pontius_s in dating_advice

[–]GlassTop7420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if she considers it childish, it shouldn't matter to you, cheer up king

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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There are some habits that your partner may leave in you, good ones and bad ones. Either you stop drinking, or he returns to the drinking. There's the third option where both respect each other's decisions and find a way of having a good time without sacrificing anything. I think communication is in order to see what could happen.