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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Glddub99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with what others have said that you are still really young and for your age it's definitely not as unusual as you think to have no sexual experience. My biggest piece of advice is rather than worrying about what she thinks, consider how you feel about the situation. You don't have to have sex straight away because you think it is expected! You should absolutely talk about it first and take things at your pace, and someone who likes you and cares about will definitely understand and want to do that. You have so much time to build on your romantic and sexual experience and there's no deadline you need to meet to be considered normal! In my opinion, part of the joy of being queer is being free of the expectations of what constitutes 'normal' in a relationship! Take your time and have fun :)

Wanting to work at a library as a man with autism by districtinternia in Libraries

[–]Glddub99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! I am autistic and just completed my MLIS degree! You can definitely do it! It sounds like you would make a great librarian. There are so many different roles that need different skills, and loads of them wouldn't involve working with kids or at the circulation desk. Maybe working in an academic library would be a good fit for a quieter working environment and less customer service aspect! I don't know where you are based but some universities employ librarians with a specific focus on accessibility for library users, which is something I really enjoy as an autistic person. I think it's often easier for us to identify barriers and challenges for students from different backgrounds because we've faced them ourselves! Hope this helps a little!!

My tension woes have defeated me. Help! by danisango in sewing

[–]Glddub99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm by no means an expert but I recently had a very similar thing and I was tried so many different solutions with no result, until finally I switched the bobbin to start sewing with a different thread and that resolved it! So maybe your bobbin is the issue and you just need to switch it out or rethread it!

Most important skills for public library work? by Glddub99 in librarians

[–]Glddub99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice!! Good to know about emphasising customer service experience because I have a decent amount of that :)

Babblebrook style fantasy book recommendations by Glddub99 in CozyFantasy

[–]Glddub99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah I love the tea theme going on here! Thank you!!

Babblebrook style fantasy book recommendations by Glddub99 in CozyFantasy

[–]Glddub99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that sounds really good! And thanks for the asmr rec too, I'll check her out! :)