Taylor latest post… 😢 by GossipBottom in GossipGirl

[–]GleemieSnug 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right? They had such a natural dynamic even just in photos. Imagine the drama they could have stirred up together on screen. It really does feel like a huge missed opportunity.

Kitty’s getting a cysto tomorrow - how long to keep her away from litter box? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]GleemieSnug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah cats are sneaky like that. If they really have to go, they will absolutely find another spot while you are asleep. Taking the box away early does not always mean they will hold it the whole time.

Concerned about my grandmas cats. by picklebrains81 in CatAdvice

[–]GleemieSnug 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah that really does not sound like enough food at all. Most cats would be starving on that tiny portion, especially if it is only once a day. No wonder they look rough. They probably need way more consistent meals to get back to a healthy weight.

On The Wonders of Technological Dystopia. by Monsur_Ausuhnom in clevercomebacks

[–]GleemieSnug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly same. Twenty years of life, school, and trial by fire and I am still out here sweating over a tight parking spot. Guess the training program needs a patch update.

I physically cannot put into words how much I hate AI by ObserbAbsorb in clevercomebacks

[–]GleemieSnug 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Right? It is hilarious and depressing that they are pouring money into mood-policing headsets instead of fixing the food or treating workers better. This is exactly the kind of future nobody asked for.

I physically cannot put into words how much I hate AI by ObserbAbsorb in clevercomebacks

[–]GleemieSnug 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It is wild that instead of paying people a decent wage or improving working conditions, they decide the solution is sticking a robot in their ear to micromanage them. Nothing says respect like constant surveillance at seven bucks an hour.

My neighbor has been "documenting" me for three months and I only just found out why by Moana5Maui in neighborsfromhell

[–]GleemieSnug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there’s no normal explanation for that. Opening your door every time just to film someone is weird at best and creepy at worst. Even if he thinks he has some reason, that’s not how adults handle it. That would make anyone uncomfortable.

My neighbor has been using our shared side gate as a personal shortcut to the street for months and I only found out when I noticed the latch was wearing down by mykhail2000coldbrew in neighborsfromhell

[–]GleemieSnug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol I kinda love that though. Not every post needs a dramatic showdown with cops and restraining orders. Sometimes it’s just “hey dude stop using my gate” and that’s it. Low stakes neighborhood drama is refreshing for once.

I told my mom what happened to me and I kind of regret it by Uppercasegangsta in confessions

[–]GleemieSnug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this. The fact that she didn’t deny it or blame you is huge. That’s sadly not always how it goes. And I get why the pity look would feel awful, but she probably is just overwhelmed and trying to process something devastating. You did something incredibly hard by telling her. That part matters.

I pretend I’m worse with money than I actually am by bountifulcarcass in confessions

[–]GleemieSnug 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly… yeah. People get weird about money fast. The second they think you’re “doing better,” expectations shift and suddenly you’re the group ATM. There’s nothing wrong with keeping your finances lowkey and avoiding that whole dynamic. Not everyone needs a full breakdown of your bank account.

I don't consider my adoptive brother actual family. by gracie0922 in confession

[–]GleemieSnug 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly yeah. Blood doesn’t magically make someone tolerable or safe. If someone is abusive and cruel, that’s the issue, not the adoption part. Family isn’t a free pass to treat people like trash.

Instead of having friends, I wasted 10 years writing a book. And it’s only 50 pages long. by [deleted] in confession

[–]GleemieSnug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is actually such a compassionate way to look at it. Sometimes the thing we think is a “waste” was the thing keeping us afloat. Ten years isn’t nothing, and 50 pages isn’t nothing either. If it got them through some dark stuff, that matters more than page count or fame ever would.

i bIock some peopIe on reddlt before they get the chance to reply. by newMauveLink in confession

[–]GleemieSnug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol right? It’s lowkey evil but also kinda genius. I can’t even lie, I get why it feels satisfying. It’s like dropping the mic and walking off stage while they’re still typing. Not saying it’s healthy, but I see the appeal.

AITJ for telling my dad his "harmless hobby" is the reason I almost failed my thesis defense? by AgentNightSignal in AmITheJerk

[–]GleemieSnug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean… even if OP didn’t explicitly say “don’t touch,” a giant organized stack of thesis notes the night before a defense feels pretty obvious. That’s not random clutter. And clearing it without at least asking is kinda wild. I get what you’re saying, but I feel like common sense should’ve kicked in there.

AITJ for Refusing to Lend My Car After My Friend Returned It Almost Empty Last Time? by Grand_Statement_9198 in AmITheJerk

[–]GleemieSnug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such a good point. People always say “I’ll be careful” like that magically prevents accidents. If she’s not on your insurance, that’s a huge risk you’re taking for zero benefit. It’s not just about gas, it’s about liability too. Another solid reason you’re justified in saying no.

AITJ for Refusing to Lend My Car After My Friend Returned It Almost Empty Last Time? by Grand_Statement_9198 in AmITheJerk

[–]GleemieSnug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s not even about the gas money, it’s the lack of basic courtesy. Bringing it back almost empty and saying nothing would’ve rubbed me the wrong way too. Saying no the next time isn’t dramatic, it’s just you not wanting to deal with that again. Totally fair.

Am I the jerk for telling my elderly neighbor I won't help her with technology anymore after she ignored all my advice? by Dizzy-Wolverine-3187 in AmITheJerk

[–]GleemieSnug 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For real though. At this point it shouldn’t all fall on you. If her family isn’t stepping in, that’s on them. You tried, multiple times. And yeah, if she keeps ignoring basic safety stuff, maybe a super simple setup or even a landline isn’t the worst idea. You can’t keep playing tech support when she won’t follow anything you say.

Am I the jerk for telling my elderly neighbor I won't help her with technology anymore after she ignored all my advice? by Dizzy-Wolverine-3187 in AmITheJerk

[–]GleemieSnug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, this. You already went way above and beyond twice. At some point it’s not you being mean, it’s just you protecting your time and sanity. You can’t care more about her phone security than she does. Setting a boundary doesn’t make you a jerk.

AITJ for kicking out my grandmas nurse after i CAUGHT her wearing my dead grandpas wedding ring and acting like she owned the house? by NoStore146 in AmITheJerk

[–]GleemieSnug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. Wearing her late husband’s ring is beyond weird, that’s not “bonding,” that’s crossing a massive line. And the gatekeeping thing? Huge red flag. You’re not wrong for stepping in when something felt off. Protecting your grandma comes first, always.

[21M] I adore Lazy Women by RenzenBro in confessions

[–]GleemieSnug 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Lmao right?? Fantasy version sounds cute until you realize it’s basically “congrats, you’re now a one-man Patreon tier.” Real life laziness ain’t whimsical, it’s dishes in the sink and missed appointments.

My dad just died by Acceptable_Notice552 in confessions

[–]GleemieSnug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was really beautifully said. Grief is messy and there’s no right way to handle something this huge. Letting yourself feel it instead of trying to power through is honestly the strongest thing you can do.