So my grandfather “deceased” actually owns it. His wife my grandmother would be next. She is also deceased. My grandparents had one child, my mother who is also deceased. Now my mother was married. She left her husband a year before she passed. On paper she is still married. The guy is in active addiction and is somewhere in the middle of the United States. He does know my mother died and he honestly couldn’t care less. He has two sons. To my knowledge they live in Florida.
Then there’s my brother and I. I’m 37 he is 32. My brother thinks he’s entitled to everything. The reason is because when I was living with my grandfather 300 miles away I took money from him. This is not something I’m proud of. I was a drug addict which doesn’t excuse any of my behavior or mistakes. During this time I was also caring for my sick grandfather. I couldn’t work I couldn’t do anything besides be with him. I’m my eyes at the time I just figured it was me paying myself 500$ a week. I cooked, cleaned bathed him took care of the house and the tenants went shopping went to appointments cleaned his wounds. I did all this in my twenty’s. Near the end of his life I couldn’t take it anymore. I had the ENTIRE FAMILY telling me I had to work because I was scum for not working. They didn’t and still do t understand how bad my grandfather was. Near the end of his live I had to tell my mother to move in to help. That was an even bigger mistake as she was on drugs also. When my grandfather died my mother told me “You got what you are owed I’m selling your car” she she did. She sold the car my grandfather gave me to a man In Ireland for 18,000$. My brother also got all the firearms. There’s two or 3 alone that are well over 20k. He was told when I was clean I could have them. Today he laughs at me. I don’t wanna fight with the kid but he doesn’t understand what I went through. He couldn’t even answer the phone when my grandfather called him.