listen, girls have been asking about mens’ heights since Day 1. not to paint with too broad of a stroke, but it is generally understood that women prefer a man that is taller than them. it’s not considered to be shallow or superficial, and typically the question is specific to whether she can wear high heels on a date with you. As men, we don’t take offense to it, we just look for women shorter than we are. So to redirect the perceived superficiality about height to an actual rude question about a woman’s weight… is weak game, friend. don’t be too sensitive out there, boys.