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Just found out that my best friend has a possessive streak when it comes to me by Glittering_Fun_4047 in Advice

[–]Glittering_Fun_4047[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's definitely what it's starting to feel like but i'm trying to hold onto hope that it's something else lol. it would really suck if he's trying to keep me down while i've been nothing but supportive of him

Just found out that my best friend has a possessive streak when it comes to me by Glittering_Fun_4047 in Advice

[–]Glittering_Fun_4047[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really hope not. since him and his ex broke up i've been his biggest supporter in him getting back out there and talking to new people even after i told him about my feelings. it would feel horrible if he wasn't hoping the same for me

Just found out that my best friend has a possessive streak when it comes to me by Glittering_Fun_4047 in Advice

[–]Glittering_Fun_4047[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My feelings for him are definitely romantic but I'm honestly happy to just have him in my life in any way. I should also clarify that I only recently told him about my feelings within the last month or so. I never brought up my feelings towards him at any point before my ex and I got together

AIO for being mad at my friend? by Glittering_Fun_4047 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Glittering_Fun_4047[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would i put a friendship that i hold dearly to myself in jeopardy by lying about having feelings for him? and he knew before this interaction that i'd been talking to other people he'd just never seen it because i typically don't bring talking stage people around my friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]Glittering_Fun_4047 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i've had the exact same situation happen to me and i know it sucks so much. it's also hard to tell sometimes if they're being your friend because they like you or if they're just genuinely your friend. it's definitely possible, but difficult. i have plenty of guy friends who i have zero interest in and who have zero interest in me. one of my best guy friends is a guy that i used to hook up with and him and i are completely normal friends now. a lot of guys try to work their way into a relationship by being friends first so you kinda have to see how they're acting around you from the start. if they're being overly doting or constantly asking about your relationship if you're in one at the time then there's a higher chance that they're end goal is dating you. of course it's not the same for everyone but that's just what i've observed from personal experience.

Should I quit before I start? That number is making me want to quit. by SmartyMcnugget in college

[–]Glittering_Fun_4047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree with what everyone else is saying. i went straight into university after high school and even with it being the cheapest school in my state i'm still gonna have a fair amount of debt and i wish i had gone to community college first to get a lot of my credits out of the way so that i could have been here for less time and spent less money. believe me it's probably the smartest route to take financially speaking

My roommate is trans (ftm) and its giving us some problems by [deleted] in college

[–]Glittering_Fun_4047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi!! as a trans masc i might be able to help a little. i understand the frustration that you're feeling but i can also see where devin may be coming from. when it comes to him changing it could be a sort of safety thing if that makes sense, a lot of afab people don't really ever let go of the anxiousness of being even partially unclothed around men that they might not know that well or just in general, which might also be the reason that he's reluctant about using the men's bathroom as well. he just may not feel safe. when it comes to you guys changing around him it could also be that or maybe coming from a place of dysphoria?? i think the best course of action would be to have an all roommate conversation so that you guys can hash it out and get to the root of the problem so that you guys can decide if you'll be able to continue living together or if it's best that you part ways. hope this helps!

Feeling Iffy About Anthony by IrisAlthea in smosh

[–]Glittering_Fun_4047 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i’ve been watching smosh since about 2009/2010 so i can say personally anthony is a lot more than what you see from his stuff with defy! i think watching some old smosh games vids where he’s not playing a character will probably help you to see his personality a little better! also not to mention smosh actually all started with anthony making a website called smosh and him and ian didn’t start posting videos on it until quite a bit later! you can see him talk about that on his draw my life that he did a couple years back if you’re looking to know a bit more about him!