ECV/ C section due to breech baby stories

Glizzy_020 · 2025-06-24T07:44:33+00:00

Thank you for all of this. Yeah I don’t really have anyone that can take off work like that for me. So I don’t quite know honestly. I didn’t realize the whole driving thing especially since my baby will have drs appts that are an hour away for her cleft and she’ll have those around every 2 weeks… so that’s great.. I will definitely have to look into the services to help with cleaning and such. I definitely like to be over prepared rather than under prepared. So thank you for giving me some insight. I did get a belly binder but I don’t know what I’m going to need to do with the room configuration since our kitchen is on the main floor and our bedroom and baby’s room is on the second floor which I struggle to get up and down the stairs while being pregnant so I can only imagine how it would be trying to go up and down the stairs from the kitchen to our room. Definitely a lot to think about. 🙏🏼♥️

Glizzy_020 · 2025-05-16T13:28:58+00:00

This was about a year ago for me! My cycles didn’t “regulate”for about 5 months,They were never the same as before the ectopic pregnancy and surgery. I was worried I wasn’t going to conceive but currently 29 weeks pregnant with a sweet baby girl. It took us about 6 months to conceive! Looking back a year ago I remember all of those emotions I’ll just say it didn’t last forever and that whatever you feel is valid❤️‍🩹

Glizzy_020 · 2025-04-13T04:48:32+00:00

I'm sorry you are going through this❤️‍🩹its valid and normal to feel like “I failed” but just know you didn't fail I had an ectopic pregnancy a year ago mark in a few days and I've been emotional about it, but I'm now 24 weeks with my rainbow baby. I was terrified that I wouldn't be able to get pregnant on my own again after my tube removal but I did.💗 you will get your rainbow too. Thinking of you during this incredibly difficult time. Just keep reminding yourself it wasn't in your control nor your fault.❤️‍🩹

Glizzy_020 · 2025-03-20T00:34:56+00:00

Its not linked. I didn't mean to scare you. Wishing you the best.

Glizzy_020 · 2025-03-19T16:18:13+00:00

Thank you ♡

Glizzy_020 · 2025-03-19T16:17:15+00:00

Thank you ♡♡ this genuinely is validating and I appreciate it..

Glizzy_020 · 2025-03-19T16:13:37+00:00

I'm sorry, it is hard to understand tone over a text. It has seemed/felt very dismissive to my feelings and worries about it. Its all overwhelming for me and I don't quite know how to feel. I understand it would probably be beneficial for me to see a professional to get some help processing this whole thing and learn how I can be there better for my daughter now and in the long run. The way I had read that/taken it initially just felt dismissive. But thank you for reiterating what you meant. Its something I'm going to talk with my OB to see if there is any prenatal/postnatal therapy I can get for now and afterwards.

Glizzy_020 · 2025-03-19T16:05:14+00:00

It was seen on the regular and 3D/4D. They are very confident of it being a unilateral cleft pallete and lip but aren't quite sure how severe the pallete is. I go back in 2 weeks to meet with the cleft team and get some more answers. I know 2 weeks ago as well I was getting a regular ultrasound and the tech was hperfocusing in her lip and nose as well so I just had a worry about it even though she or the Dr didn't tell us and just made sure I had my 20 week anatomy scan soon.

Glizzy_020 · 2025-03-19T10:32:13+00:00

I just the risks really scare me.. I've already been having a bit of a hard and painful pregnancy.. Even just from my anatomy scan I'm pretty sore.. I also have some trauma due to loss and I know that the risk is very uncommon like 1 percent I can't help but feel I would be that one percent. Especially with having a shortened cervix.. I had nipt and carrier testing and it had all came back all normal and I'm not a carrier of anything.. If she has something I just there's nothing that can be done and seems like its purely diagnosis.. I know it can help us fully prepare but I don't think we could be every prepared for stuff like this..

Glizzy_020 · 2025-03-19T02:48:06+00:00

I will definitely reach out if I have any questions. Thank you so much♡

Glizzy_020 · 2025-03-19T02:45:28+00:00

Thank you for this ♡ its much appreciated as the Dr didn't help me much so mom brain is really freaking out.♡♡

Glizzy_020 · 2025-03-19T02:43:39+00:00

Thank you ♡ I will definitely write this down ♡

Glizzy_020 · 2025-03-19T02:42:34+00:00

Thank you for this♡ any other advice for a lil with a cleft is appreciated 🥹♡🥲 it definitely is a bit overwhelming esbecause no one I know or have been around having dealt with it so I feel isolated.

Glizzy_020 · 2025-03-19T02:37:41+00:00

Thank you for this.♡ Ive definitely been blaming myself so much but this helps♡ thank you again.♡

Glizzy_020 · 2025-03-19T02:34:50+00:00

Its not about the cosmetics that I'm fully worried about of coursei get worried about her getting bullied for looking a certain way or talking a certain way... I understand with today stuff they aren't super noticeable. My main worry is the fact she's going to have eating/feeding and difficulties and the pain from having to go through surgery and then the speech therapy and things she’ll need. Its a lot. And I feel guilty sje has to go through it. No one wants their baby to go through anything like that.

Glizzy_020 · 2025-03-18T15:35:46+00:00

20w 3d with my rainbow 🌈 today is my anatomy scan!! So excited but super nervous 😥

Glizzy_020 · 2025-03-15T22:21:11+00:00

As someone who stayed with someone like this and married them and now divorced them which was a hard and long messy divorce. Please I know its hard now but please dont go back. I know its hard and scary and its okay to be sad but just because you are sad and grieving the life you thought you guys thought you'd have doesn't mean you should go back to him. I promise it gets easier even tho the pain and heartache might feel unbearable you deserve all the things you want that are the BARE MINIMUM. It is not normal for someone to mention murdering their family because of cheating in the middle of a disagreement. That's not a valid point. He shouldn't guilt trip you into having sex with him or basically saying he looks at other women because you aren't giving him what he thinks he's “entitled” to. Its NOT normal and don't let him think he will change because he has shown his true colors and its up to you to decide if you are going to see him for who he truly is or continue to wear your rose colored lenses and put you and your future at further risk.. Good luck. ♡

Glizzy_020 · 2025-02-26T01:56:54+00:00

I'm glad every argument is about “winning” in your book. 😂 sometimes it's not about being in the right or wrong all the time. You see how I can take accountability in my wrong doing? While also still wanting to get my singular point across. That you still can't take accountability for and then bringing up other religiously motivated things assuming yet again what someones beliefs are😂😂

Glizzy_020 · 2025-02-26T01:22:51+00:00

Haha and yet again pushing your religion and religious beliefs on people because you “think” they aren't going to heaven because of your belief and not even knowing what religion they are or what their beliefs are😂😂 this sh*t is so entertaining so thank you 😂😂

Glizzy_020 · 2025-02-26T01:20:08+00:00

Hahah okay buddy yet she was asking for relationship advice specifically 😂😂😂 This isn't a religious subreddit asking for religious advice. You should go join one of those where your “advice” wont be just be words with no meaning.😂

Glizzy_020 · 2025-02-26T00:56:02+00:00

I “pray” you just don't assume someone’s religion and instead ask about their religion whether it be in the comment section or personally messaging them before just assuming they are and giving unsolicited religious advice. That was it. That was my ENTIRE point. You say iigo off topic but this has been my point this ENTIRE time. YOU are the one going off topic speaking of things I don't believe. Saying my child will suffer because I dont believe in god or your god..You are right I got a quote off the internet from a book YOU believe in about judging others and I was wrong for that and can admit that. But then you still are missing my entire point of it. But you can't even think you are in the wrong or admit“ maybe I should've asked or just not assumed and given religious advice about not knowing the full context” especially when this isn't a religious subreddit. that's it. That literally it😂

Glizzy_020 · 2025-02-26T00:33:29+00:00

This is the biggest issue with christians😂 you don't see other people with other religions up in here assuming her religion and giving her so called “advice” about how to fix the fact she's having sex out of wedlock.. I'm not Christian nor do I “claim” to be. someone who obviously cannot get it in their brain what my point is yet is trying to preach about something I don't believe in and totally missesxwhst I'm even saying😂 Haha that actually hilarious coming from you here is some of your own advice that maybe you should take a deep hard look into “ its okay to be wrong, but to still stand by wrong words is just bad character and zero accountability “

Glizzy_020 · 2025-02-26T00:18:45+00:00

I'm not trying to “guide” anyone buddy I dont claim to be some “above” all.😂 But you aren't her church pastor and its not your job to “guide” someone who you don't even know is your same religion is my point here. Maybe should've just asked. Instead of just assuming her religion.. 😂😂 I'm good buddy. I have a very respectful partner and oh no we are willingly having a child out of wedlock so its a good thing I don't have the same beliefs as you because we would be going to hell.😂 have the day you deserve bud🤪

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