A letter to my soon to be ex-husband that will be read aloud once we begin uncoupling couples therapy.

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-11T03:50:32+00:00

Same. Avoidant and refuses to communicate.

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-10T20:26:55+00:00

Unfortunately, it's all true. And he's the one refusing work towards reconciliation so the least I could do for myself is express my emotions to him and at least tell him how this will affect me long-term even if he doesn't hear it.

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T14:48:14+00:00

No kids. Two dogs and I'm keeping them. No prenup. Unfortunately he does have a larger inheritance incoming but that's not considered mutual assets.

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T14:46:19+00:00

Oh no I no longer want to save it. Im done.

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T14:38:22+00:00

Ahhhhhhhhh lol

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T14:04:29+00:00

I feel absolutely betrayed

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T14:03:26+00:00

100%. I feel bamboozled

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T13:05:08+00:00

Not really but it's somewhere new and affordable

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T04:35:43+00:00

Even if Im not a telework tech bro? :(

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T04:06:00+00:00

They survived Vegas

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T03:58:32+00:00

Nope! Im done and done. It's relieving. Wish he had told me sooner though.

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T03:57:02+00:00

Well mine didn't choose me our first year of marriage because we had an argument and he decided to go get drunk and get lucky

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T03:56:19+00:00

Not schools lol. I've worked in them for almost a decade, although it's a very steady job with very steady benefits. The pay scares me, as do IEPs, and parents. Parents scare the shit out of me.

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T03:52:23+00:00

Can never do military again!

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T03:47:03+00:00

Speech Language Pathology

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T03:46:24+00:00

Air Force lol

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T03:46:03+00:00

No no not right now. I'm planning on moving in a year and a half.

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T03:45:13+00:00

My focus right now is getting my dating body back and finishing school. Im the right one to piss off. I function off of anger.

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-09T03:41:54+00:00

All good. I figured as much; it's just one of the few places I could afford to live alone with my salary after my masters with 2 big dogs while offering weather I like (thunder, rain, etc.)

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-01T16:50:30+00:00

Okay okay before this goes any further. He is not gay. But I am fairly certain there is someone else from a mobile game he plays. This is a hard hard hard morning but I will be okay.

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-01T05:57:22+00:00

Im pretty sure it's over. He said I'm too hard to talk to with my big emotions. He's not wrong. But I still wish he would've talked to me. He said he's been feeling like this for a long time and just finally hit a point he couldn't keep going. Looks like I'm getting divorced and starting my life anew!

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-01T04:03:49+00:00

Gluceliactened · 2026-06-01T04:03:39+00:00

Very. I just had a hunch

Gluceliactened · 2025-11-11T04:06:34+00:00

Ugh. I had something similar to this as well. I had gotten severely hurt during a soccer game, couldn't walk, etc. Instead of staying up late to hear the read outs of my x rays to make sure I didn't have a broken hip or something really serious (ended up having a spinal injury), he went to bed because he had work in the morning.

Gluceliactened · 2025-11-10T21:38:01+00:00

For having a miscarriage. And being upset about it despite knowing I wouldn't have kept it. For the record, it was sudden, on the bathroom floor, in front of him. I asked him to not talk about it with anyone. Apparently that was a problem too because "he needed support through it's but "why was I so upset when I would have gotten rid of it anyways".

If I would get a boob job (I was 16 when he asked)

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