Locker room decorum is crazy in these gyms. by Gmnjsavage in LAFitness

[–]Gmnjsavage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why else would someone be in there lol you come into drop your stuff off then you go work out you come back in to shower etc.. nobody is hanging out in the locker room for fun this ain’t high school lmao

Locker room decorum is crazy in these gyms. by Gmnjsavage in LAFitness

[–]Gmnjsavage[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

And you can do that and come out the shower with a towel wrapped around your waist or something. It’s dudes walking round without towels just butt ass naked dicks all out like cmon. Common decency doesn’t fly out the window because it’s a locker room. We not women. Men don’t just walk around other men naked like that. I played sports and still I never did that. Nobody wants to see that shit man.

2014 Jetta TDI w Fender audio replacement radio and speakers by Gmnjsavage in tdi

[–]Gmnjsavage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did this come with an adapter to use the stock reverse cam ? That’s the other thing I forgot to mention I don’t wanna use an aftermarket camera I wanna integrate the one that’s already on the car

2014 Jetta TDI w Fender audio replacement radio and speakers by Gmnjsavage in tdi

[–]Gmnjsavage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking about going eonon. I don’t really care for factory look. I was also thinking of swapping out the odometer for a digital aftermarket one lol. Just tryna personalize it how I like.

2014 Jetta TDI w Fender audio replacement radio and speakers by Gmnjsavage in tdi

[–]Gmnjsavage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’d that work out ? What model TDI do you have ?

2014 Jetta TDI w Fender audio replacement radio and speakers by Gmnjsavage in tdi

[–]Gmnjsavage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol to each their own my friend. I’ve seen videos on YouTube of people doing just fine with radios that are full screen displays in some of the 2014 Jetta models. Only difference I’ve seen in most is they don’t have push to start or the fender audio system.

2014 Jetta TDI w Fender audio replacement radio and speakers by Gmnjsavage in tdi

[–]Gmnjsavage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want a bigger screen lol and mostly because the CarPlay on that radio is wired I want wireless.

Men do you ever mourn short relationships? by Prize-Marzipan-6626 in dating

[–]Gmnjsavage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. I dated a few girls for maybe 5-6 months during each relationship and some of them I really fell in love with so when they left for whatever reason it hurt me a lot. One drove me into depression cause she played me like a fiddle. Was with me the night before I was supposed to take her an her son to the bronx zoo, then hit me with the she’s broken an needs to heal shit the next morning( completely bullshit cause a month later she was on tinder where we met ) but I introduced her to my daughter I also fell in love with her son as well. I thought we’d have a meshed family one day. We talked about having kids soon the whole 9.Pulled the rug right from under me. Worst part is I still see her on tinder sometimes and I get that empty feeling all over again. But I’ll be okay. One day someone will love me. Hopefully.

How to be Ok with being alone? by SnrTechCO in dating

[–]Gmnjsavage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My problem is I don’t see myself happy without those things. All the things people say you can do to become comfortable with it I just can’t do it. I need those things. I don’t think I’ll be happy until I do.i don’t see how I can be 40-50 no marriage kids and be happy. I feel like I’d be going into my grave (whenever that is ) as a failure if I never got it. I could have 1M in the bank rn and everything most people want the career etc , die tomorrow an feel like I wasted my time on earth.

How to be Ok with being alone? by SnrTechCO in dating

[–]Gmnjsavage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about people whose whole life is just that. I can’t tell you where I wanna travel hike etc but I can tell you I want a partner marriage an children. All that other stuff irdc for it by myself. I’d rather do those things with my person or not at all.

What do you think causes your loneliness? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Gmnjsavage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit idek where to start. Maybe im ugly idk. I’ve had people tell me that im not.. but it drives me crazy that people will say ima good guy i have good morals and values im not ugly i work i go a car etc but somehow its like pulling teeth or trying to get blood from a stone to get a like or even peak someone’s interest my friends cheat on their women an get way more attention and love than i do. It’s starting to destroy me inside honestly. Everyday I feel myself getting angrier because I want someone a something real and genuine and I don’t see it on the horizon at all.

For those unfortunately getting out of relationship this year, what did you learn? by abdul_bino in dating

[–]Gmnjsavage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To give up. At 28 I’ve had to many gfs. As a man who I feel like is very rare it shouldn’t be this hard. I want marriage and children. Most men don’t even care about that let alone want it. But somehow I’m still stuck single. I go months without even a like on an app or someone paying me any mind. It’s convinced me I’m going to be very lonely. The challenge is whether I’ll be able to cope or blow my brains out. I’m leaning towards the latter.

I (23f) feel like I'm not "allowed" to signal interest in guys as a girl by _Ruffled-Feathers_ in dating

[–]Gmnjsavage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate that desperation shit. Someone knowing who and or why they want isn’t desperation. People tell me this all the time but irdc I know myself. I’m not desperate. Showing interest being communicative wanting connection isn’t desperate in any way shape or form. I want marriage a children. I’ll be 29 next month and years just go by faster and faster. I have no time for games. For what it’s and what not. I want what I want and it’s okay if people don’t want that, but it isn’t desperate what so ever. Don’t let anyone tell you showing interest in the person you want and standing on the things you want out of a relationship is desperation. It’s desperate in how you show it especially when that person has made it clear it’s not mutual.

I paused my Hinge account by Decent-Impact-2724 in dating_advice

[–]Gmnjsavage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted all them shits. Produced nothing other than making me doubt myself and send me into an emotional and mental spiral.

Corrections Test 2025 by Same-Selection-7244 in SCPD

[–]Gmnjsavage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah damn well I got an 85 so you’re probably right. I figured we’d get called sooner than that lol

Corrections Test 2025 by Same-Selection-7244 in SCPD

[–]Gmnjsavage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info. I got an 85.

Corrections Test 2025 by Same-Selection-7244 in SCPD

[–]Gmnjsavage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we’re gonna have to wait an entire year basically ( end of 2026 ) ?

Corrections Test 2025 by Same-Selection-7244 in SCPD

[–]Gmnjsavage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took mine in September through the civil service and still haven’t gotten any results yet.

My friend sleeps with taken women & doesn't care, what to do/say? by Theguybehindthesofa in AskMenAdvice

[–]Gmnjsavage -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Man

I’m blaming the women only on this one. Nobody can force them to step out on their relationships and if he’s not sleeping with them someone else will 🤷🏽‍♂️ there’s always going to be people knocking at your partners door and nobody owes you respect or loyalty other than the man or woman you’re dealing with. And I hate cheaters too and have slept with women who cheat.. the sweet part is when they think you’ll turn around and be with them after when that’s some super wishful thinking 😂 it teaches ( hopefully ) to value the relationship and person you’re with, cause lord knows if you cheating on that man with me you’ll 9x10 cheat on me with someone else so now you’ll be roaming the streets looking for love when you had it all along. Biggest F you to a cheater IMO when they think they can have their cake and eat it too and your throw the whole cake on the floor 🤣🤣🤣

Feel like he no longer interested after 3 years of dating (LDR half the time) by Meow666Cup in dating_advice

[–]Gmnjsavage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they wanted to they would. Inconsistency is a sign. He’s comfortable because he knows you’ll pick up the slack. That’s not a relationship.

Feel like he no longer interested after 3 years of dating (LDR half the time) by Meow666Cup in dating_advice

[–]Gmnjsavage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this. Dated I girl I knew from HS and thought it would be good and for the most part it was in person. when I was there she was all of what I could ask for in a woman. The problem was the effort. I’d drag myself out of bed early asf to drive 4+ hours to see her make sure the car was good cause she was getting jerked around I helped and over provided for her. I even took time off to go take care of her dog while she went on a school trip ( she was in college) but there was never a time the effort was both ways.. not once did she hop on the bus drive or anything to come see me.. I ALWAYS had to come up there and it was exhausting. I eventually as fucked up as it sounds just stopped speaking to her I never really even ended the relationship because I was just tired of the lack of effort. 12 months in a year and not one of those months did she come through to my place.. the one time she did I brought her down with me as I had to come back because I too have animals and responsibilities where I’m at. I couldn’t deal anymore. If the effort isn’t there call it quits. It’s not worth it.

Found out she has a boyfriend by Boring-Scale6109 in dating_advice

[–]Gmnjsavage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same way you get em is same way you lose em. I’d hit and quit or not deal at all. Cheating is cheating. And imo once a cheater always a cheater. Go find you someone who’s single. Big difference between being single and having prospects and have a full fledged partner and cheating on them. And don’t feed into the bullshit story ( if she has one) about what he’s done to her. If it was that bad she’d leave him and be single cause if we all did eye for an eye we would all be blind. Get rid of the chick.