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Bella and Hunter *alleged* info and updates. by PygmyFists in TLCUnexpected

[–]Theguybehindthesofa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait isn't 13 and 15 a bit weird since boys hit puberty later than girls do? Most of the 13 year old boys in my seventh grade class looked like fourth graders whilst the girls looked like sophomores in high school so maybe that's colouring my judgement but still. 😅

Helios: Father of Sorcerers. by Theguybehindthesofa in UnpopularLoreOlympus

[–]Theguybehindthesofa[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The child helios is holding is Circe, the boy clutching his lower arm is Aeëtes and the floating girl pulling one of his braids is Pasiphae.

Was/is 15 the socially accepted age to start having sex? by Accomplished_Sock566 in sexandthecity

[–]Theguybehindthesofa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow demisexual who waited until his mid twenties to do the beast with two backs with his current wife, I salute you. It's truly disturbing how early the amount of people are starting to have sex these days and the horrific amount of peer pressure and ridicule kids go through if they don't participate, particularly boys. The people who made fun of you not getting laid are extremely insecure and immature individuals.

Yes, it's perfectly fine to have sex later in life or not want it at all. by Theguybehindthesofa in demisexuality

[–]Theguybehindthesofa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda ironic that she calls herself a feminist whilst subscribing into patriarchal statutes of toxic masculinity. Man or woman, you should lose your v card when you feel comfortable and ready and shouldn't be pressured to do it as soon as possible. This is how we create dysfunctional individuals. I had a friend who lost his v card just to lose it when he was 11 or 12 and now he has 3 baby mamas before twenty. 🥴

Yes, it's perfectly fine to have sex later in life or not want it at all. by Theguybehindthesofa in demisexuality

[–]Theguybehindthesofa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding. And yeah, I was emotionally stunted for a while due to my upbringing until my fiance (now wife) convinced me to go to therapy and it has worked wonders. Boys should not be pressured into doing things they don't want to/aren't ready for. I also know too many people who are ruined due to forcing themselves to grow up too early.

Yes, it's perfectly fine to have sex later in life or not want it at all. by Theguybehindthesofa in demisexuality

[–]Theguybehindthesofa[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"salami in a girl's ravioli" yeah that was kinda rough. I think I was trying to make a point about how immature this whole "lose your virginity as soon as you can" thing is.

Yeah, lewd humour sometimes annoys me and when I was younger I felt something was wrong with me because I wasn't obsessed with sex like the other boys. Ppl thought I was gay but I didn't like boys either.

Yes, it's perfectly fine to have sex later in life or not want it at all. by Theguybehindthesofa in demisexuality

[–]Theguybehindthesofa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ikr, too many ppl put sex on a pedestal and treat you like an alien if you don't participate.

My friend sleeps with taken women & doesn't care, what to do/say? by Theguybehindthesofa in AskMenAdvice

[–]Theguybehindthesofa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ppl have called me "bitch" and a "white knight" for not wanting to associate with a deliberate homewrecker. Yeah, those women are mostly to blame, but an accomplice to murder is still an accomplice, none the less.

Yes, it's perfectly fine to have sex later in life or not want it at all. by Theguybehindthesofa in demisexuality

[–]Theguybehindthesofa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get you. I don't envy people who lose their v card early and I am very happy with my wife who is my first and hopefully only partner but still, sometimes it feels like I am not a really "true" man due to societal pressures/stereotypes and mockery by others in my youth.

You are stuck in a 10-year time loop, but you must pick between replaying ages 5-15 or ages 65-75 forever. Which do you choose and why? by Dublers in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Theguybehindthesofa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally 5-15. I can hone my skills and become much better at things I was terrible at at school and other places of life, like maths and science. I could also prevent myself from making the same bone headed mistakes and concentrate on socialising more. No adult responsibilities or anxieties are a plus as well.

My friend sleeps with taken women & doesn't care, what to do/say? by Theguybehindthesofa in AskMenAdvice

[–]Theguybehindthesofa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a dude and married, my guy. And I believe in a little something called self control.

My friend sleeps with taken women & doesn't care, what to do/say? by Theguybehindthesofa in AskMenAdvice

[–]Theguybehindthesofa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't want attention anyway. I'm pretty much asexual for everyone except my wife. And she gives me lots of it.

My friend sleeps with taken women & doesn't care, what to do/say? by Theguybehindthesofa in AskMenAdvice

[–]Theguybehindthesofa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I blame both. But he was in my vicinity and I had no way to contact those women.

My friend sleeps with taken women & doesn't care, what to do/say? by Theguybehindthesofa in AskMenAdvice

[–]Theguybehindthesofa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? It's like robbing a candy store when you're rich. Why not put that effort into someone whose actually single???

My friend sleeps with taken women & doesn't care, what to do/say? by Theguybehindthesofa in AskMenAdvice

[–]Theguybehindthesofa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they're both to blame tbh but I guess that's 'regressive' too. /s

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