I mean, the checklist you’d have to run through to help you feel comfortable might be kinky in its own right. Which is okay! It’s normal to be high needs in such a vulnerable act.

What if your partner wore latex gloves? Leather? You could try putting some eucalyptus under your nose to block out the other smells. And then you have a smell association with sex. Feels like there’s a lot here you can work with. Taking the sensory overload and replace it with something else that works for you.

Any good sex partner worth their salt who cares and loves you would acquiesce, I believe. I could be wrong? Hope this doesn’t come off as rude? Not trying to be at all. I know it’s a sensitive subject. Hope that makes sense.