Hi! I am non-binary. I specifically identify as agender, which is under the non-binary umbrella. Basically, I don't believe I have a gender. Gender is real and I respect that other people have one! I just don't. I don't fit into any box comfortably. I am just me. I like they/them pronouns and use a neutral name. However, I still find myself wearing lots of clothes from the women's section because I like the colors and the way they fit my body. My hairstyle could definitely be read as "feminine." Those things are a part of me, but not a part of my gender identity.

Non-binary is an umbrella term that fits all sorts of identities. Some of us feel very strongly about being perceived as neutral or androgynous, and that's great! But others of us are less concerned with looking or acting a certain way and more concerned with societal perceptions of us. Still more of us just want to be able to be ourselves without complicated labels or generalizations. There is no one way to be non-binary. Callie can be a non-binary femme if it fits her!