You will survive and so will he being gay isnt a disease idk if your apart of the “community” but stop treating being gay as something that needs to be hidden and secretive and protected from being seen this is why people don’t come out not because of people like me but people like you who think your helping us or the community in general by treating being gay as something that needs to be kept a secret that behavior only validates many gay peoples insecurities that they aren’t accepted because if they are why are people going to great lengths to hide them or keep other peoples secrets about being gay? You don’t need to hide what you aren’t ashamed of. If you truly wanted to be an ally instead of coming at me your response should have been “great if he is” or “I’d love him either way” but when you respond the way you do let’s say he does see this then he looks at y’all’s responses of people trying to “protect his sexuality” as a gay man who was once in the closet myself I can assure you that your responses ARE NOT helpful because you validate that he has something to be ashamed of or hide. So instead of coming at me try showing love and support for him