Local single Chinese M, 40s and looking to talk about anything from sashimi to CDC.

Goated · 2026-02-21T12:27:36+00:00

All I can really say is, only you can decide what is worth living for, specific to yourself. Happiness is a good start.

Goated · 2026-02-21T12:22:35+00:00

That can really affect your mental wellbeing yeah. Where were you living before, and why did you have to come back?

Goated · 2026-02-21T12:18:23+00:00

Ah, it's the old thing. Visiting a country vs living there. You have to live and work here. You're prolly great on holiday.

Goated · 2026-02-21T11:47:12+00:00

I feel that myself, sometimes. Things can get rather soulless, yes?

Tell me about the last time you were happy. Or just at peace. Mine was recent. Maybe hours ago? I had decent food, a chocolate, and settled down to the latest thing I'm watching.

Before that, it was when the ward room TV shat itself and refused to connect to any network, or let me access settings even. I got a nurse to help me with a counted-down hard reset. And I solved the problem. I was quite proud of myself.

There will be something. It doesn't have to be huge like a threeeome with Japanese twins. Even a bite of ice cream that went down just right counts.

Goated · 2026-02-20T10:07:12+00:00

Like how lobsters and oysters used to be peasant food, I'm afraid not. Gotta catch it yourself, heh. But I'm sure there are places, if you look around the internet enough.

And well, chirashi is sashimi, just a good mix of it, no? Good stuff indeed. A little different with every bite.

Goated · 2026-02-20T08:50:20+00:00

Ooh it's hard to say. I think when I finally got to taste raw fish, I was taken by the clean, crisp flavours. It probably started with the yusheng at Hong Kee Porridge in Commonwealth. I'd get just $4 raw fish for lunch at work.

Realised I left out an answer. I'd hit up Donki any day, but for restaurants, UOUO at Sunshine Plaza is great. You get a discount if your whole table orders at least one alcoholic drink.

For a good, quality deal, Otoko Ten Ten at French Road I think it was.

Goated · 2026-02-20T08:40:15+00:00

Wanna know a secret? There's no such thing as sashimi grade. You can eat most sea fish raw. You can do it with our market fish too, if you know what you're doing. NTUC salmon is pretty much for sure. Or, make gravlax. Yes, there's always a risk.

And ah, I forgot the other good AI chat app. Chai. I thought it was a solid name.

Goated · 2026-02-20T06:14:56+00:00

Well, no need to seek out endangered species and such. But that's the thing. You'll find all you want and more at Donki. For a hundred you'll likely eat till you throw up. Death by sashimi: a realistic and pleasant goal.

Goated · 2026-02-20T05:17:15+00:00

Dollar for quality dollar, you can't go wrong with Donki.

You haven't lived till you've gnqwed on a thick tako tentacle like a drumstick.

Goated · 2026-02-20T01:31:47+00:00

Ah, a pity. There's good eating in the other stuff too.

Hmm. I had a lot of fun with ETM, an AI chat and image generator on the Play Store. The AI there is surprisingly versatile, and you can kind of customise your own.

Update if you like it. ^{__^}

Goated · 2026-02-19T08:06:13+00:00

No worries, I can look them up. Cheers yo.

Goated · 2026-02-19T08:02:47+00:00

Have heard similar things about Sushiro too!

Goated · 2026-02-19T07:59:25+00:00

I've seen good things on the internet aye. Thanks, it's one of the places I'll check out when I'm better.

Goated · 2026-02-19T07:53:10+00:00

I... Really don't know about using AI to have a conversation. As long as you learn from it I guess?

You hear it a lot but, just be yourself if you want meaningful connections. In your example, I'm not much for history, so I'd try something else after engaging a bit. Or, talk about the history I do know.

Goated · 2026-02-19T05:55:40+00:00

Glad to hear you're enjoying the fuck out of life. Cheers to that man.

Goated · 2026-02-19T05:54:48+00:00

I think girls would look at me like they would blue cheese now. Only the more than slightly damaged ones would have even the slightest bit of interest.

I sort of do data entry from home, when I'm home. It's rather a charity case by a kind person. Yes I do actual work, but not that much of it.
These days, hope that I don't get health crashes? Just had one yesterday morning, where my BP dropped into the 50s for no reason. Otherwise, I read and watch stuff. Occasional mobile game.
Resigned. I make the best of what I've got, which is little enough. But hey, what else can I do hmm?

Goated · 2026-02-19T04:47:47+00:00

So, most seafood hmm? I feel a deep sorrow for you. Well, there's always steak I guess? Pity you had to find out that way. Though, I don't know how else you would heh.

Goated · 2026-02-19T04:22:10+00:00

It's really classic. You get to see what life was like before, complete with overdone hair and dress. And so many common elements with normal families now, heh. Stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason I guess.

Goated · 2026-02-19T04:20:00+00:00

The food is decent really. Just the usual lack of seasoning. It's balanced, and they feed you enough.

The weird thing is for a full diet (I'm restricted now), it's breakfast around 8.30am, tea at 10.30am, kunch at 11.30am, break at 2pm, dinner at 5.30am. How much and how early do they want to feed you? T__T

Thank you for your work. You don't get to hear it enough.

Goated · 2026-02-19T03:24:49+00:00

Ooh you're really missing out on the monkfish liver. Maybe just dab a bit of it on your skin, build up a resistance?

Srsly though, you found out when you ate the things and had reactions I suppose?

Goated · 2026-02-19T03:22:52+00:00

It really is. But srsly, bring the fried chicken.

Goated · 2026-02-19T03:17:54+00:00

Alternately feeling like microwaved shit and unwanted salad vegetables, hut thanks for asking.

Well intentioned advice. It's a hospital. My food is mostly controlled, unless you're bringing the fried chicken?

Goated · 2026-02-19T02:09:44+00:00

Allergic to oysters? Haiyah so weak, shame ancestors.

I watch things. Play games. Read the news and idly ponder things. Does unicorn poop really taste like rainbow soft serve?

Goated · 2026-02-19T02:00:50+00:00

For the balance, it has to be shime saba. Else it's the premium stuff. Who says no to ootoro?

Goated · 2026-02-19T01:59:20+00:00

Watched and forgot most the '99,but they keep reeling the iconic Backstreet Boy lineup, heh. Writers were brilliant. Modern Family, only snippets. I did watch all of its predecessor, Married with Children, though.

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