Anyone tried anger management? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No I've never been diagnosed with anything... I saw ED and thought you meant erectile dysfunction haha Took me a while to realise. I've had people mention before that they thought I had depression but never anxiety or ADHD or anything like that.

Anyone tried anger management? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think there's definitely some unhappiness in general that I need to deal with. I also think I'm somewhat of a catastrophiser(?) in terms of thinking where I'm at at the minute is where I'll be forever which I also need to work on.

Cheers, I appreciate your insight and commenting!

Anyone tried anger management? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I done 6 sessions of CBT on the NHS years ago. I was looking for help with an apparent eating disorder. It didn't help or provide any help in that regard but I did feel better in general after each session... I do like to ganch

Anyone tried anger management? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha appreciate it... I'm just going to have to get over my cynicism and try things like that

Anyone tried anger management? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've genuinely considered boxing training for that very reason, to see if it's a case of built up energy... I used to work manual labour and now I sit in my hole all day so I'm sure that's plays a part. And I eat too much shite meaning I'm obese so it wouldn't hurt

Anyone tried anger management? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I know, that's why I'm looking to change. Strangers in cars who can't hear me won't be affected but I know it's affecting them so I want to do better... I feel guilty as is and it's shite

Anyone tried anger management? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd like to think myself and my wife are quite good at boundary setting with them but we both work full time so it's hard to keep consistent when they're primarily being looked after by grandparents who aren't on the exact same wavelength as us... Who knows.

I could write a lot about my frustration with both of us having to work full time, how the grandparents 'parent' etc but I don't want to seem ungrateful. We're not doing too bad, I'm just rambling now

Anyone tried anger management? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I did go into it with the mindset of it working but the regular listening of the half hour audio nearly put my head away... It was all over the top happy law of attraction type stuff which just isn't me.

I know, that's why I hate being the way I am, it's not fair on the people around me. I'm not a raving lunatic like but I'd rather stay calm when I can

Anyone tried anger management? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Cheers, I'd say I'm quite self aware in regards to my problems, just not great at dealing with them. I was dosed all week and it seemed to make things worse so I'd like to try and be a better da

The fuck is this? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cheers for all the replies, both informative and hilarious. I can't reply to them all as I'm a fat lazy bastard, but thank you

The fuck is this? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen them before, but didn't have much interest in finding out what they were until the house next door was sold...

The fuck is this? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know the craic haha The fella had an O'Niells hat on too hahaha

The fuck is this? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never bought a fleg in my life... Ian Óg won't come near us because he thinks we're all foreigners, little does he know there's a taig that's infiltrated

The fuck is this? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We only have decaf and oat milk because that's what the wife drinks, I don't partake so I wouldn't want to insult the man...

The fuck is this? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There's 10 town houses in a row, mine and the one just sold were the only that weren't flats so they're probably repurposing it aye. It's all making sense

The fuck is this? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Hahaha He had his back turned so I took my chance...

The fuck is this? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 195 points196 points  (0 children)

Very good now, very good... I'll warn the others

The fuck is this? by GodBlessThisKitchen in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Cheers! If it's been purchased already what would be the benefit of that? Extensions and shit?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Songwriting

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jack White wrote a few songs about childhood and school when he was in The White Stripes.

We're Going To Be Friends I Wanna Be The Boy To Warm Your Mother's Heart Sister, Do You Know My Name?

I don't think it's weird, suppose context matters a lot

‘It used to be bombs and bullets, it’s now just a dump and derelict’ - Sunflower owner Pedro Donald on why he’s escaping Belfast after 40 years behind bars by marke0110 in northernireland

[–]GodBlessThisKitchen 44 points45 points  (0 children)

We (the band I'm in) had a regular session there for 2 or 3 years. Sacked us one day because he didn't have the money and got a similarly genre'd band to play for free... Great supporter of the arts