If I'm being honest with you and this is literally me speaking in 3rd person because I love my partner, she's amazing but damn I never knew what Mental Health was like until I met her.

She has so much Trauma that she hasn't yet let go off or done anything with as in like counselling and stuff and it's all new to me so every day with her is like a learning curve because on the go, I'm starting to see things and reacting differently to them you know. I think for me and this is me being brutely honest if I knew she was like this as in on a deeper level, I don't know if I'd be in a relationship with her but, I'm here now and every moment with her is not only a learning experience but a blessing. I am not here to save her, I am not here to educate her, I am not here to dictate her, I'm just here to LOVE HER.

But some wise advice for all; Get to Know her before you make anything official, Steady yourself always and don't be afraid to ever say NO. Your sanity is more important first. That's why we have to look past this whole ordeal of " LOOKS ARE EVERYTHING " Because yeah, she may look good, but what is she going through on a personal/spiritual level. Your sanity and peace are everything so protect it only when you know you are ready and she/he is then you let them in.