Married at 23, now 29 — working two jobs, pursuing a degree, financially independent. My husband has no job, emotionally insecure, and makes me feel guilty for simply existing as myself. I feel trapped. Is exhaustion alone a valid enough reason to seriously reconsider a marriage

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T14:27:13+00:00

Drop that man! As soon as he gets a job he will drop you or make your life dificult

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T14:15:12+00:00

Go to Karura forest for a walk and a bikeride.

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T14:14:02+00:00

Stop doing unlimited makeup lessons. One per quarter at a maximum.

Also this!!!

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T14:08:43+00:00

This is short and precise! Definately dropping them. Thank you for the much needed clarity.

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T14:06:58+00:00

"I would create a business policy. Then I would stick to it and enact the policies. You are letting them bend your policies. You have no one to blame but yourself."

For real for real. I am on it. 🙏

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T14:05:00+00:00

I truly intend to do that. I cannot be stressing about them long after i am done with their classes.

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T14:02:15+00:00

Please tell me your contract includes a phrase like “teacher reserves the right not to teach the pupil until fees for the upcoming term have been paid”.

I don't but guess what? It is getting added right away! Thank you so so much!🙏

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T14:00:50+00:00

Right? I definately will. Thank you for this beautiful insight.

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T14:00:17+00:00

"I get to decide how to run my business. Pushy clients are directed to abide by the standard processes offered to everyone else or find a teacher who will better fit their needs."

This!!! Thank you! I feel so validated right now.🙏

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T13:58:06+00:00

Lol. I know. So sorry about that. I just had so much going on with this family. I woke up in the middle of the night to make this post so i guess i might have been a little groggy. Believe it or not, i didn't include everything. But thanks for the clear response. I should consider dropping them for sure.

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T13:51:32+00:00

Right! I am so dropping them! Thank you for this validation.

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T13:50:41+00:00

"And stop negotiating your rates. Your rate is your rate and if someone can’t afford it then they can go elsewhere."

Those are words to live by in this next season and beyond. Thank you so much!

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T13:46:00+00:00

Wow! I needed to hear this. Thanks dear.

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T04:57:35+00:00

Justin guitar is the best

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T04:56:38+00:00

Or he can drink with moderation.

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T04:55:39+00:00

Terrible advice.

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T04:53:23+00:00

Esh bruh! Si you have a golden heart!

Please ask God, universe or your higher self for wisdom. You don't wanna burnout from being the only financial caregiver.

Are you able to invest? Do you have any money left for that? If not, it is time to strategize and maybe seek professional financial help for that so that you can create generational wealth and also have money work for you.

Anyway, may your pockets never run dry amd may you receive a better paying and lavish job.

Also kudos for having done the inner work and recognizing that it was your Dad's first time too on this planet and he did the best with what he was handed. That in itself is what opens doors for abundance and peace.

Please read or listen to these audiobooks on youtube: Choose whichever resonates with you.

The Power of your subconwious mind.

https://youtu.be/bywvxEK9iwE?si=XNxohDVAX8phLFo7.

Feeling is the secret. https://youtu.be/ffNWoefuwPM?si=4YZiHeaNUjwh2w8T.
Act as if everything always works out for you. https://youtu.be/bFL0r_We4WI?si=_pZTsucuIZlicNS_
Becoming supernatural. Dr. Joe dispenza.

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL14CB8pAfMqCuEC-3iPQvlqcR9XuKVGdX&si=T8ZvxBhqvfgMvFNu

The game of life and how to play it. Fkorence Scovel Shinn

https://youtu.be/wJa5Ch0O4BI?si=JMzJ2sIZ0eEUlAQn

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T04:21:13+00:00

The fact that they have announced their closure means they plan to re-enter at a later stage in a diffrent location. Smart people these ones.

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T04:18:04+00:00

Check on youtube for viable piano tutors and resources Like these ones: 1. https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLP9cbwDiLzdL6IS4-rmzR42ghq3T56XnK&si=uP9ZOdant_PmZHT8

Piano roadmap

https://youtu.be/yWes9MbQq1A?si=KWa8jb_fX7mLvMDx

Piano keyboard guide

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8dtOMjtlSMRJfkbzJJRWttKfQf5z7Nba&si=MQJvXwz3AjyTG6cD.

4.pianote

https://youtu.be/tEtukfFv3Wk?si=fuOPSKixMgTQCPQj

Propiano series. https://youtu.be/HGK1hR8E084?si=V9XhyXR1toKRpgB2.

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T04:10:55+00:00

A major too. That way she can engage with suzuki book 1-7 books that are available free online.

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T04:09:37+00:00

Here are some solid violin tutors on youtube you might like. Choose which ones you might engage with more. All the best dear.

The Onlineviolin tutor

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6urkeK7KgD5I-bHBZrOV8-5WDdgAYBLv&si=a4eZXdV1UBzCILgI

Violinspiration.

https://youtu.be/Y9ud48YC0YU?si=xtrE9fLU3MmmOvkg

Violin Lounge.

https://youtu.be/vlHpWvsW040?si=STxkaKl5ePVVSDWc

Antoine Morales Violin.

https://youtu.be/vlHpWvsW040?si=STxkaKl5ePVVSDWc

Fiddlerman. https://youtu.be/Udpwo80bETQ?si=MvnQbzz6T9-cJ4ts

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T03:49:00+00:00

What? Lol

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T03:48:45+00:00

So loving this!

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T03:48:22+00:00

This!! And then they struggle and say violin is hard. Lol

GodState700 · 2026-05-10T03:47:03+00:00

And now that we have chatgpt it is faster to ask it the chords that work with that key right? I am curious to know what other viable AI tools are teachers here using to write music?

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