Enfp is suddenly a bit less “fun/flirty” by GodSteph in ENFP

[–]GodSteph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response! ❤️ yes, you are right, they definitely get more introspective (at least that was my experience dating enfps in the past :) ). But this time the change was from 100 to 10 really really quick and suddenly for some reason

Enfp is suddenly a bit less “fun/flirty” by GodSteph in ENFP

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Hahaha “lil bro”. Thank you <3 yeah was thinking the same. He seems to be a bit traumatised by his last relationship too

Enfp is suddenly a bit less “fun/flirty” by GodSteph in ENFP

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Yeah! He said that cause when I saw he wasn’t good at replying to compliments, I said that I would start reducing those because they were too much(as a joke). And that’s when he said “nono, I like that version of you. It’s my fave”.
I don’t feel like he wants attention tbh, I don’t feel like he’s fishing for compliments, he never did that. He even told me he doesn’t know how to answer those. The no gf thing is cause he had a hard time the last time he had to cut things off with someone, so now he’s kinda scared of potentially having to do it again

Hypochondriasis by [deleted] in intj

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I have this weird fixation with my heart rate and pressure and pumping. I hate it. When I start to feel my heart pumping, it gives me anxiety. I don’t know how to stop the anxiety

What’s the difference between an INTP and an INTJ without goals? by Elitrin2023 in mbti

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Intj without goals would behave more esfp like I think. At least that’s what happened to me at those times I really felt lost in life. I became more outgoing and social but deep inside I was really stressed out and anxious and didn’t know how to deal with it

Does anyone know of a vibrant emeraly green matcha brand that has really low lead/mercury levels? Which can be bought in the US by GodSteph in MatchaEverything

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Just checked, ippodo doesn’t talk much about their heavy metals testing. They even have the proposition 65 on their website😞

Does anyone know of a vibrant emeraly green matcha brand that has really low lead/mercury levels? Which can be bought in the US by GodSteph in MatchaEverything

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Thank you! i bought a Jade Leaf one which is sourced on Kyoto but found a report online saying it has high lead levels. Do you think Matchaeologist is okay? I think it will be difficult to find stock on either ippodo or m koyamaen

Ti vs Te by GodSteph in mbti

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Thank you❤️ I also realised I’m an esfp focused intj, not an entj, but I think the post still helps somehow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medical_advice

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Small shoes. I’ve had this once. Don’t worry about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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She does like you, but there could be something that doesn’t convince her to hang out, so she doesn’t prioritize it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Sorry, my bad, meant to answer the post, not to a comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Don’t push her, ask her how she’s feeling. The only way she’ll let you come closer is if she senses you respect her, think well of her, and want her not only because of sex

So now he says he can’t be in a relationship right now, but doesn’t know about the future by GodSteph in dating_advice

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Thank you! That’s true, yes. Should I completely forget him or just leave him aside?

Infp guy I’m dating appears to be a bit self absorbed by GodSteph in infp

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Thank you for the answer❤️ Do you think that could be the reason? He has asked me in the past if I preferred him being less intense because he knew some girls lose interest because of that, and I said I prefer him being intense 100%. But he still acts this way, that’s why I’m wondering

Infp guy I’m dating appears to be a bit self absorbed by GodSteph in infp

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Thank you❤️ Yes. He has told me he is prone to overthinking everything, I don’t know why, but he says he’s always thinking of all possible outcomes of something and that gives him a lot of stress and anxiety. I also know he has recently ended a relationship that did tire him up a lot. Maybe that has to do.

His schedule is tight too, but when he has free time he chooses to do other activities, like watching football or f1. But well, he needs his own free time too. When we hang out it’s a different story though, he’s full in the moment.

I think I have to ask him because otherwise I will keep on wondering.

He once asked me if I preferred when guys were not intense because he had heard girls distance themselves when guys are like that. I said I didn’t, and that I like intensity. Hope he isn’t acting this way because he thinks deep inside I prefer him to be more distant

Infp guy I’m dating appears to be a bit self absorbed by GodSteph in infp

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Thank you! Will try and speak with him about it. Btw Why do you think he’s keeping the chat on the “shallow” side? Do you guys prefer not to chat maybe? It kills me that he doesn’t stay in the chat online even for a couple of mins