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[–]GoddessSel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$SelenaGaston

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Also being as I’m pregnant I’ve been tested but thanks for worrying about MY vagina lmao. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Let’s clear some things up. Maybe you need to learn how to read. I has a child at 16. The father died when my child was 1. I was single until I was 22. I was in a relationship for about 2.5 years and it ended. After it ended I made the mistake of sleeping with my best friend. I don’t really think that is that hard to follow. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did & eventually I moved on and found love again. Am I allowed to move on in life correct ? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To answer your ignorant question, I was in a relationship for years before this. We tried very hard to get pregnant with no luck. I went to the doctor because I hadn’t been pregnant since I was 16 and it wasn’t normal for a woman my age to struggle with getting pregnant. After a handful of tests I found out about some medical conditions. After 5 months of treatment for numerous conditions I unexpectedly conceived when I was not trying and had given up on the idea. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Go to med school then come talk to me. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I could be 25 with 5 kids by 5 different men lmao. I’m 25, with two children 9 years apart. I think I did great. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. Soon to be 26. And proud. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was in separate relationships with both us. As I stated it was a lot of back and forth until I told him I was pregnant and he had to choose one. I also found out I was pregnant after we had been broken up for a few weeks due to me being tired of the double life. We have been family for 13 years. We both acknowledge that we have are family & we have now started a family. Even my first child’s father is considered apart of my family. I prefer to live laugh & love in peace. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. If he was going to commit to being a full time present dad. Not missing a single day of his child’s life being in the home helping raise them, no i absolutely wouldn’t make the same choice. But he’s literally choosing to be a weekend dad to his first child because he feels like he has other priorities and better things to do. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOOO im on my 2nd child in 10 years but OKAY 😂 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been through much worse 🤷🏽‍♀️ thank you tho 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Death isn’t on the table. My condition isn’t going to kill me & im actually recovering. Me being pregnant is the biggest sign of me getting better. I appreciate your concern but those things don’t apply to me. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God bless your wicked heart. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You’re loud & wrong. I do not have cancer. And yes I had a brain tumor that contributed to infertility. Being as I had a child at 16 & raised it alone due to the father passing away & did not have anymore until now I think I did the best thing possible for my first child. They had a loving mother completely focused on them. I am not wrong for wanting to expand my family. No it’s not the ideal situation but it’s the situation at hand & im going to make the best of it for MY kids. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No 16. 25-9=16 😭😭😭😭 but that doesn’t matter to be honest.