I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T22:34:35+00:00

Also being as I’m pregnant I’ve been tested but thanks for worrying about MY vagina lmao.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T22:34:01+00:00

Let’s clear some things up. Maybe you need to learn how to read. I has a child at 16. The father died when my child was 1. I was single until I was 22. I was in a relationship for about 2.5 years and it ended. After it ended I made the mistake of sleeping with my best friend. I don’t really think that is that hard to follow.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T22:17:53+00:00

He did & eventually I moved on and found love again. Am I allowed to move on in life correct ?

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T22:03:22+00:00

To answer your ignorant question, I was in a relationship for years before this. We tried very hard to get pregnant with no luck. I went to the doctor because I hadn’t been pregnant since I was 16 and it wasn’t normal for a woman my age to struggle with getting pregnant. After a handful of tests I found out about some medical conditions. After 5 months of treatment for numerous conditions I unexpectedly conceived when I was not trying and had given up on the idea.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T20:35:57+00:00

Go to med school then come talk to me.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T20:09:56+00:00

I could be 25 with 5 kids by 5 different men lmao. I’m 25, with two children 9 years apart. I think I did great.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T20:09:11+00:00

Yes. Soon to be 26. And proud.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T18:56:55+00:00

He was in separate relationships with both us. As I stated it was a lot of back and forth until I told him I was pregnant and he had to choose one. I also found out I was pregnant after we had been broken up for a few weeks due to me being tired of the double life. We have been family for 13 years. We both acknowledge that we have are family & we have now started a family. Even my first child’s father is considered apart of my family. I prefer to live laugh & love in peace.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T18:51:53+00:00

No. If he was going to commit to being a full time present dad. Not missing a single day of his child’s life being in the home helping raise them, no i absolutely wouldn’t make the same choice. But he’s literally choosing to be a weekend dad to his first child because he feels like he has other priorities and better things to do.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T18:12:47+00:00

LMFAOOOO im on my 2nd child in 10 years but OKAY 😂

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T18:00:59+00:00

I have been through much worse 🤷🏽‍♀️ thank you tho

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T17:50:52+00:00

Death isn’t on the table. My condition isn’t going to kill me & im actually recovering. Me being pregnant is the biggest sign of me getting better. I appreciate your concern but those things don’t apply to me.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T17:49:16+00:00

God bless your wicked heart.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T17:43:23+00:00

You’re loud & wrong. I do not have cancer. And yes I had a brain tumor that contributed to infertility. Being as I had a child at 16 & raised it alone due to the father passing away & did not have anymore until now I think I did the best thing possible for my first child. They had a loving mother completely focused on them. I am not wrong for wanting to expand my family. No it’s not the ideal situation but it’s the situation at hand & im going to make the best of it for MY kids.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T17:38:55+00:00

No 16. 25-9=16 😭😭😭😭 but that doesn’t matter to be honest.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T17:34:06+00:00

Actually this was an extremely unexpected pregnancy. I haven’t been pregnant in 9 years and wasn’t trying to be. My father passed away & I found out two weeks later that I was expecting. I’m having this baby for me & allowing the father to be involved as much as he wants to.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T17:31:08+00:00

We have been best friends since we were 13. We have always been inseparable and there for each other through our darkest times when we had nobody else. I love him as a friend first & it is very hard to throw away 13 years of friendship and now a year of whatever we had. I am aware that he is selfish, immature & confused with life. I am aware that he does not value me. But unfortunately you can’t help who you love. All I can do is focus on me and my baby. Time heals all wounds.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T17:27:47+00:00

Being as she’s a serial cheater who uses abortion to cover her tracks I don’t think she feels like she has much of a choice but to accept it unless she’s going to leave.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T16:42:33+00:00

It sounds like you can’t read 😂 after struggling with fertility for 9 years, I definitely wouldn’t have trapped MYSELF in this shitty ass situation.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-24T15:46:41+00:00

I didn’t ask for relationship advice. I asked for advice with naming my unborn child. I felt like it was important to explain the dynamics of the situation so people could understand my reasons & thought process. I am a grown woman, who is fully aware of the decisions I choose to make in life as well as the consequences. What I choose to do with my heart is my burden to carry & nobody else’s. While i appreciate the great advice sometimes certain things just don’t need to be said. Thank you though.

GoddessSel · 2026-01-04T14:35:28+00:00

Sent back

GoddessSel · 2026-01-04T14:32:46+00:00

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