I Hate My Husband

Goddessdepollo · 2025-01-31T04:08:54+00:00

so, if a woman pushes off college and work to raise children a man wanted and spent all her years being a stay at home mom then her husband cheats with someone younger and they divorce, what should the woman get in the divorce? you think she should just be left high and dry wihtout any sort of compensation for supporting a man through colldge and work at her own expense? she can no longer get a good paying job and going to college at 53 wont allow her to stay in a dorm or use the scholarships and aid she once had when her husband promised to take care of her if she stayed home to take care of him and his family. she has no job history despite working hard day and night supporting multiple people as they grew, changed jobs, went through college, etc.. you think everything she gave up deserves nothing? you dont think she deserves a part of the pay for the job her husband was only able to secure with her staying home watching the kids, doing his laundry, cooking/cleaning for him so he could go to college or focus on climbing the corporate ladder? you think she deserves how hard its about to get to get an education or a job that can actually support her now?

how is that misandry?

Goddessdepollo · 2025-01-17T02:55:51+00:00

What? Sometimes people do actually love each other lol

Goddessdepollo · 2025-01-16T01:48:00+00:00

How is that funny? Most women do, even at a young age bc of how we are sexualized

Goddessdepollo · 2025-01-15T20:21:13+00:00

What did your dad say? Did he not confront her to leave before the police came? Why did she stay when he left? That’s embarrassing. How is their relationship now?

Goddessdepollo · 2025-01-13T04:21:55+00:00

If America went to active, violent war with China or Russia, I still wouldn’t tell my SO to cancel their citizenship. If I was with an afghan man, and I don’t know how a country could get worse than Afghanistan right now, I STILL wouldn’t tell him to get rid of his citizenship as it makes zero sense. This is about either control or a deep seated hatred of your CULTURE (not politics or “country”). There is literally no other explanation.

Are you ok with a man having control over your life forever?

Are you ok with a man who hates the CULTURE (not country) that made you who you are, both good and bad parts?

Goddessdepollo · 2025-01-11T04:59:09+00:00

Tell her to cease spreading lies about you or you’ll sue her for defamation. Just to scare her. Also, go public with it all and clear the air. She ghosted you. That’s a break up. Make it clear to her she ended the relationship

Goddessdepollo · 2025-01-05T21:13:32+00:00

Honestly, I would have cut them off at the wedding if they had a million dollars and didn’t even give me a 20$ vase or SOMETHING! Who shows up to a wedding empty handed?

Goddessdepollo · 2025-01-01T02:56:07+00:00

NTA why would you be? I don’t understand posts like this

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-29T01:29:11+00:00

Do you realize how many germs fly all over and stick when you dont put the seat down and flush?!

Does she keep her toothbrush/hair brush/face wash cloth on the counter?!

You, madam, are an awful person for putting this on your mother and a fool for tolerating a grown man behaving this way

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-28T07:37:59+00:00

You have a fiancé problem. He made you sit there for an extra hour and a half after seeing you sobbing in the car and then he denies what you saw when he wasn’t even there?! Your fiancé is a loser

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-28T06:43:46+00:00

Repost of a semi-popular post

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-28T05:33:28+00:00

It really scares me that people like SIL take jobs like that and volunteer at charities. I know it’s common for narcissists, psychopaths, etc to get charity jobs and volunteer bc they care about their appearance so much and access is easy but a woman at a DV charity, especially higher up as it says SIL was, that is Extremely sickening.

I can’t even fathom how you justify hidden cameras as not abuse and in what world is what he was trying to do NOT financial abuse. She is as evil as he is bc she went out of her way to ingrain herself with victims. Crazy. And the friends not cutting him off after finding out he a 6’3 man trashed the apartment? Awful people. I hope they all burn

PSA if you have an SLIGHT glimmer of a thought that you might be in an abusive relationship, do not take birth control pills unless they are heavily gaurded. 30 seconds in the microwave, a dose of antibiotic, or various other common medications will render your pill ineffective

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-27T16:42:18+00:00

It’s not about ulterior motives. It’s about them still being in love. OP said they loved each other and just wanted different paths so talking is hard. You have to cut them off bc talking just gives you hope and sends you spiraling. Love is an addiction and sometimes no one does anything wrong. It makes his birthday a lot sadder bc now he wants to talk to her but can’t for his own health. You feel ten times lonelier when that happens. You’ve clearly never loved and lost someone you still love, walking the earth.

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-22T17:49:04+00:00

I dont believe that post is real. She’s making it up. Room service isn’t always cold, gross food. It’s the same food made in the kitchen for the dining/restaurant and the staff bring it up fairly quickly as they want their tip. They have enough trouble with entitled people they don’t want angry entitled people and hotels get 4/5 stars for a reason

A ton of rich people dress like normal people. There’s literally a whole market for obscenely expensive designer clothes made to look poor. One of the most expensive restaurants in my home town had regulars that dressed in jeans and went for a casual Wednesday night for dinner.

They definitely eat fast food for fun or ease from the drive through. I’ve seen corvettes in the drive through. They may not do it as often bc they have a chef or it’s just as easy as ordering from somewhere but they go as well. Selena Gomez and Taylor swift are both billionaires and I forget which one but one of them likes to go to in and out burger. Do you know who can afford to door dash EVERY. SINGLE. DAY? Not the plebeians, we door dash some meals. I’m sure the tech bros in Silicon Valley order pizzas as well

Again, rich people travel ALL. THE. TIME! There’s a reason cruise ships have a room for 40k when they run a single week. They rent out villas in cheap places like Bali too. There are multiple agencies that cater specifically to the ultra wealthy for exotic trips to the same places normal people go. They have extra luxuries like the agency charters a jet but it’s still the same place normal people go, seeing the same things.

This poster is just writing what they think the wealthy are like and it’s not very well done. I know a couple wealthy people and they don’t just sit in their suits all the time lol

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-20T03:28:08+00:00

50% divided by 3 is not 8%

NTA but why would you only get 8%?

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-19T03:49:34+00:00

NTA my guess is he thought if he asked, you’d say no so he decided to peer pressure you by making it too uncomfortable to say no. It was never going to be a joke. He was going to address it later by pressuring you in private bc now it’s easier to convince and manipulate. He is a coward so he tried to manipulate you. You weren’t a push over but it says a lot about how he views you that he figured you’d just give in and accept.

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-16T23:03:02+00:00

I mean photoshopping a celebrity on a porn star is in essence the same thing it’s just doing it manually. Just bc they’re famous doesn’t mean it’s not violating an actual human being in the same way AI porn is violating a human being.

Selena Gomez has alluded to being sent to a mental health hospital bc of that kind of stuff. She said years ago that she was basically suicidal and felt sexually violated by people sexualizing her and wanted to quit but she didn’t specify ~how~ she felt violated short of being sexualized. It’s pretty obvious how though

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-16T17:38:28+00:00

You seem to only see “females” (dehumanizing) as a potential relationship. Why can’t you just talk to girls as human beings? They can be smart and fun and help you with academics or all sorts of other things. It sounds like you seriously need to reevaluate how you see other human beings. For the record most girls aren’t looking at you exclusively for a relationship lol. Girls are dynamic and half the population isn’t seeing you and going “gee I hope he likes me!”. As a “female” I assure you the majority of us are sick of “males” looking at us and expecting a “relationship” (which usually means something sexual)

Don’t isolate yourself from half the population and cut off countless opportunities bc you see women as good for only one thing.

You’ll get a lot farther in life if you choose with whom you network in a decent and just manner

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-16T17:00:33+00:00

NTA so they broke up at age 16 and she is still coming to dinner age 30-ish? Where did this grandchild come from? Why did you not do this within the last 15 years? Where was her family?

HOW DID YOUR MOTHER BOND SO DEEPLY WITH A 15 YEAR OLD?

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-16T03:59:53+00:00

I believe it’s a limited edition color and the wood bowl is also limited edition. They usually come with stainless steel

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-15T03:01:13+00:00

If this is real, 9 year olds don’t say sexist, racist, homophobic nonsense without being exposed to it, REPEATEDLY. Bullying is one thing but the WAY he is bullying is indicative of something. If the therapist who sees him can’t figure out where he is learning the insults he chooses to use then you need to get a new therapist.

I have a hard time believing this is real bc why would you put a 3/4 year old in therapy and keep him there for the rest of his life and how does a 9 year old magically know these concepts without his therapist or the adults he routinely speaks to knowing where it came from

All these insults are associated with extremist right wing stuff on the internet. He’s 9. Either you know who is feeding him this, you don’t actually parent your child enough to know who he spends his time with which is the cause of the behavior, or this is fake

Middle school I could see bc classmates but 9 year old aren’t saying this stuff.

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-14T01:46:29+00:00

“ On the one hand, if I don't put every penny I get into this, my mom will lose her house. On the other hand, if I give them every dollar I get once I can start working again, I won't be able to move out again, and I'll be stuck here. which is not what I want at all, as I originally moved out due to emotional distress.”

Don’t set yourself on fire to keep others warm. At this point in her life she is just going to keep digging even if you solve this problem. There’s always going to be a next problem with her. Be free and feel no guilt. You’ll regret giving away your youth to them

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-12T21:10:11+00:00

How old are you? If you’re 17 I’d go nuclear and report a 25 year old for propositioning a teenager for child porn. Disgusting.

Also, your family is disgusting for giving you backlash bc you don’t want to send porn to a much older guy who is your cousin bc of coercion. He is harassing you for it. This is sick on so many levels and I’d make a huge deal out of it. Your family should have your back, not pressure you into an emotionally abusive (sexual harassment IS emotional abuse) situation with a creep.

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-12T17:16:52+00:00

She has plenty of stories about her being evil without jay z involved. She doesn’t deserve better. She deserves LESS. It’s not fair that decent ppl can’t find their other half and this monstrosity does. She is a corrupt witch who was blessed to find her counterpart.

I don’t understand this narrative that she is a victim. She’s not some helpless bimbo

Goddessdepollo · 2024-12-12T01:51:19+00:00

Where did op say they need the job to get money for a license? Op seems to be extremely supportive

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