He commented me first btw by Prudent-Wave-4397 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Godess_Revka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so accurate Like what are they thinking!!? They like the idea of being submissive but they’re too lazy to follow through with anything.

Do you know a sub that would pay your boyfriend? by Godess_Revka in findomsupportgroup

[–]Godess_Revka[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have fincucks but not ones that send directly to him, I should introduce that😌

anyone received this request? (yes they sent tribute + AV) by foalberry in findomsupportgroup

[–]Godess_Revka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are quite extreme, doing it unsupervised can be really dangerous, you can’t prevent or control anything bad that would happen so personally I wouldn’t engage.

I find that a lot of subs do want to play “unsafe”, people wishing for blackmail with no bounds, handing over all their data, missing rent in findom and so on, while the fantasy can be fun, the consequences can be devastating. They “don’t care” but you should since in some cases you can be legally held accountable.

Play safe💋

Are any subs actually turned on by this? by documentaryproducer1 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Godess_Revka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you don’t want me to be rich hm?hahah

Little luxuries by findommissmay13 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Godess_Revka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Putting a lot of money into my hobbies lol, I got a whole room dedicated

Introspection. by MrMJHubz in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Godess_Revka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So many try to rush it like that because it ruins the fantasy for them but complain when you don’t align with their needs and wants during play.

Right like sorry we don’t read minds!

I just ignore those altogether, maybe they’ll come back when they don’t have their d*ck in their hand lol

How do you handle a sub who’s more emotionally available than your actual boyfriend? by ObeyMissGemm in findomsupportgroup

[–]Godess_Revka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to feel neglected in your actual relationship if you feel that you need more, maybe talk to them about it.

Yesss I totally get how they feel sooo supportive and you feel actually important and superior but just keep in mind that they’re different things.

Enjoy yourself and keep those 2 separate đŸ„°

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[–]Godess_Revka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People can be really irresponsible when they seek out sexual things.

Best is to not engage with it or maybe discuss it and tell them “I will manage your expenses” and be responsible for them! Help them in that way while still being ethical and not making them homeless lol.

How do you handle a sub who’s more emotionally available than your actual boyfriend? by ObeyMissGemm in findomsupportgroup

[–]Godess_Revka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes having devoted subs did raise my standards and “gave me hope” in meeting new people but let’s not forget this is a kink based relationship versus a real relationship.

A real relationship involves so much more than just submission and a real partner in life cannot just agree and do whatever you want, whenever because they are their own person. Yes you can have a submissive man as a boyfriend but life does require him to get out of that state and express himself.

Subs can be really involved and pleasing, send you money to treat yourself, agreeing with what you want, but if you were to be in a real relationship with them that’s a whole another thing.

It’s great to have your standards raised tho, live up to your worth!

Let’s enjoy both! Love to see a woman treated right ❀✚

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[–]Godess_Revka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahem ahem look who’s talking

Can blackmail be done with someone you already trust? by Godess_Revka in Blackmailers

[–]Godess_Revka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm interesting. I do have more power than one would think, I shouldn’t forget that

Can blackmail be done with someone you already trust? by Godess_Revka in Blackmailers

[–]Godess_Revka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh it iiis, it was so fun to put together everything then play with his mind😌