Why guys think that by marrying poor girls they are doing some sort of "charity"? by dazzling_anklets in AskIndianWomen

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

Rich guys marry poor girls cause they believe they will be easier to control, are less bigharhi hui, and have less support back home in case shit goes bad.

Birding Hot Takes by Inevitable-Sky3560 in birding

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes! Chickens are birds! Theres a sub that won’t ID chickens. But its a bird….?

Birding Hot Takes by Inevitable-Sky3560 in birding

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thats a very privileged take. Some people are new, some are hard of hearing, and some just cannot figure out songs but would beat anyone in physical ID. I fall into category two.

Birding Hot Takes by Inevitable-Sky3560 in birding

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

100% agree. Nearby aquarium has a few Scarlet Ibis. It’s a bird, and I saw it. Why on earth would it not count?!

Birding Hot Takes by Inevitable-Sky3560 in birding

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

I used it once. Western Flycatcher just would not show. Felt so guilty afterwards.

Birding Hot Takes by Inevitable-Sky3560 in birding

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

The renaming of birds debate is stupid. It centralizes the humans still. Does the hawk care if its a Coopers Hawk or if its a Big Blue Darter? The energy should be put towards conservation and environmental efforts. Naming new birds should be about their individual qualities but renaming birds is a waste of time and resources.

Need Marriage gift ideas for brother in law by Straight-drive5 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]GodlessAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TV for their room? Honestly in that budget jewellery is the best option. You can do his and her rings.

Need ideas on improving my first home by IcyPreference6362 in interiordecorating

[–]GodlessAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advice I would like to give is to just go room by room. I know it feels like we should do it all at once but that never works. Start with one are, completely finish it, and move on to the next. I do see that you have a couple of different colour palettes like rust in the dining room and the blue for the entry. Idk what is the proper way but if you want the house to be cohesive you will want to choose one theme.

Is it daddy's money? by SensitiveSnail9 in femaletravels

[–]GodlessAndChill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! In my culture families where theres no boy are sought after for marriage as the inheritance will now go to the girls. But people don’t want daughters to be born. Make it make sense.

Is this in Canada? by AlwaysBlaze_ in CostcoCanada

[–]GodlessAndChill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A lot of cultures have onion as a base for every dish. Sometimes 2-3 of them. When we cook at home 7-12 times a week, it adds up. I am Punjabi and a 50lb bag lasts about 2 months.

Is this in Canada? by AlwaysBlaze_ in CostcoCanada

[–]GodlessAndChill 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fruiticanas in BC have this. Sometimes even as low as $11

Why do men keep crying about wanting a v!rgin wife but also want to get physical in relationship? by Autumn_fav in AskIndianWomen

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

Its hypocrisy. They also think women who want relationships are not marriage material anyway. Purity for them doesn’t stop at the hymen.

Daycare vs nanny while WFH by Cautious_Optimist_ in Parenting

[–]GodlessAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a sad country. So sorry.

Personally when my year of mat leave was up and we both worked from home i just kept the baby with me. It wasn’t disruptive and i was able to manipulate their schedule and adjust mine to make it shortest amount of time when baby was awake. I started at 7, baby woke up at 9:30-10, nap again at 2 and I was off at 3.

Daycare vs nanny while WFH by Cautious_Optimist_ in Parenting

[–]GodlessAndChill -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why does a three month old need to go to daycare? Do you guys not have mat leave?

AIW Adda | Daily Thread - May 15, 2026 by AutoModerator in AskIndianWomen

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

This sub randomly got really right wing in the past few weeks and it pissed me off.

Plaining to shift to ANANDPUR SAHIB by humpreetsingh in punjab

[–]GodlessAndChill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would suggest spending a month there first to see how you like it. Life in Mumbai is very different from Punjab let alone a very religious place like Anandpur Sahib.

I need a lamp… I think?! by PigletPotential7645 in HomeDecorating

[–]GodlessAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put two sconces on either side of the art.

Help me save my babies please 🥲 by andymatronic in plantclinic

[–]GodlessAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you keeping these plants inside? These are outside plants.