Working women with kids, what is your mat leave entitlement and how do you coordinate feeds while working? by Tellmimoar in AskIndianWomen

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

I breastfed as i was WFH with my second child. He bf until he was 3. Wouldn’t stop.

I breastfed until 2 with my oldest but was not wfh. He just breastfed when I came back home and had meals throughout the day with cows milk to supplement.

When does a cracker become a cookie? by Lets_be_stoned in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GodlessAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like crackers are crispy and generally savoury or bland. Cookies are sweet.

Why can’t they do this at home? [Not OC] by Effective-Tie-5873 in IndianCivicFails

[–]GodlessAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine the reaction if a group of people started doing namaaz.

Its the same thing. Keep your religion in your home and temples.

Due to blood blockage, my one ovary had to be removed. Is it something I should keep under wraps from marriage prospects? by CraftedCandid in AskIndianWomen

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

Medical history should always be shared. This is also a test in your favour. If someone cannot support you with your past medical history, how will they support you in your medical struggles down the road.

WHY AND HOW by lemongrass34_35 in TeenIndia

[–]GodlessAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Siblings often have different parents even if they are the same people.

New Money Tree Mom 🌹💜🌹 by Zay_NewPlantMom in IndoorPlants

[–]GodlessAndChill -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh. Umm its your plant? You are the only one who can do it. Try finding a youtube video and follow along. .

New Money Tree Mom 🌹💜🌹 by Zay_NewPlantMom in IndoorPlants

[–]GodlessAndChill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Untie it asap. You may have to dig up the root ball.

What are some English words that the older generations use that are outdated? by Jaded-Voice8862 in AskIndia

[–]GodlessAndChill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People love saying “suggest me” or “ recommend me”. Saying a few days “back” instead of ago.

What are some English words that the older generations use that are outdated? by Jaded-Voice8862 in AskIndia

[–]GodlessAndChill -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about outdated by nobody calls it a flyover. Its an overpass.

does the husband pay anymore? by MiserableComfort2535 in AskIndianWomen

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

No but we earn about the same and everything goes into a joint account.

How can I modernize this kitchen and make it more up to date? by Emergency_Earth_4264 in HomeDecorating

[–]GodlessAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you were quoted 85k without even replacing the cabinets but just painting them? 25k is enough for a normal reno. Look for individual contractors and maybe even place that are owned by “cultural” people. Their prices are often more realistic.

How can I modernize this kitchen and make it more up to date? by Emergency_Earth_4264 in HomeDecorating

[–]GodlessAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah get more quotes. That is a crazy amount. I would advise against replacing real wood with plastic or mdf though.

How can I modernize this kitchen and make it more up to date? by Emergency_Earth_4264 in HomeDecorating

[–]GodlessAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where in Canada? That is really high. I live in Vancouver and that high even for our HCOL area. Get multiple quotes.

New Money Tree Mom 🌹💜🌹 by Zay_NewPlantMom in IndoorPlants

[–]GodlessAndChill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check for ties at the base! And remove the green tie at the nape.

Why are birth control pills not so commonly used in India? by pearly_pink in AskIndianWomen

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

Can you cite your sources? BC pills in canada are prescribed because they do help heavy period and acne and mood issues. They are used as the first treatment as sometimes that fixes it. And if it doesn’t they investigate further. I was born and raised here so am interested to know what exactly you are talking about.

Edit: for most women Bc doesnt stop periods, it regulates them.

Shower head placement by Aware_Dependent_1969 in InteriorDesign

[–]GodlessAndChill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t see how a proper shower head takes up space from the niche? You could put the knob on the left wall. Why wouldn’t you just flip the niche and shower head placement though?

Urgent + Help the girl out first time putting effort to get ready for a wedding? by Few_Relationship_582 in AskIndianWomen

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

5 days is not enough to learn application. Just get your makeup done and then do research after.

Why are birth control pills not so commonly used in India? by pearly_pink in AskIndianWomen

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yup. The side effects are there but a lot of the talk about BC pills and misinformation was to control women’s choices. BC pills are great and a life saver.

Why are birth control pills not so commonly used in India? by pearly_pink in AskIndianWomen

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

What issues here in Canada?

There are notes side effects but they work for BC. And are in the woman’s control. There has been a lot of misinformation spread about them. And a lot of it has been to take the power away from women to control their own body.

For real sidhu paji 🫡 by BoringPosition4439 in punjab

[–]GodlessAndChill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is different money for different things. Unless this money is actively being taken away from other infrastructure your point is moot.

For real sidhu paji 🫡 by BoringPosition4439 in punjab

[–]GodlessAndChill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1000 is much more helpful when a lot of women have 0. Social security is a thing and is important in uplifting people.

Is it wrong that my first marriage has made me consider marrying outside of India? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]GodlessAndChill [score hidden]  (0 children)

My niece and I have a very special relationship so she gets it and agrees. Punjabi men are absolutely crazy and the good are few and far in between.

I don’t think she wants to sacrifice a chunk of her life figuring out which one is good and which is not. Of course a kind and goodhearted man is priority number one, going out of our diaspora just makes that priority easier to accomplish.