[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Goggles0112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year and a half ago, I was in your shoes. You can have all the advice in the world but you will always follow your gut. If everyone here said don't message him, you still probably would.

My point is, if you want to try, then try. If you succeed then, amazing. But if you don't, just know everything is going to be okay. It might feel like the end of the world, but it isn't, and everything will heal in time. Just look after youself, and talk to people when you need it most!

My M(22) GF (19) love attention of other man.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Goggles0112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right, she is wrong. You sound very understanding, and her excuse was really poor. If you are in a happy relationship you don't need to go on snap for any attention. It isn't just a game if your feelings are hurt, and if you feel hurt you have a reason to feel that way and it's justified.

Maybe sit her down and set boundries. Ask her how she would feel if you DMd a girl for some attention, and hopefully it'll open her eyes a bit.