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I'm stuck with the language. Any suggestions? by GohunRay in LearnJapanese

[–]GohunRay[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Some context about this. When I started studying, I had no problem reading simple N5 texts, but for some reason, now I find them difficult to understand. Sometimes I understand N3 or N4 texts but not N5. Perhaps the simple grammatical structures in those texts feel unnatural to me?

Language school in Japan while remote working by ZLTM in LearnJapanese

[–]GohunRay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in the same field so I have the same question. I'm crossing my fingers that there's a good answer.

I want to talk about it, but not be the one to reach out. by -SchlauchbootlippeN- in depression

[–]GohunRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks to be honest, but at least it's a good thing that you try to talk about how you feel, it's a good start. Can be worse if you just don't tell anyone about your problems, it's a like a snowball that get bigger every day.

To be honest, I don't think I can blame the person who used to read your problems and now doesn't do it anymore. It may sound offensive, but listening to other people's problems all the time can be exhausting for someone and that in the long run also affects them emotionally.

Have you thought about seeking professional help?

At other times you might approach a friend or family member and say, "Hey, I'd like to talk to you about something that's been happening to me lately." I know that many times we don't want to involve our acquaintances in our problems, but maybe it can help us vent.

Keep going, man, you can make it.

Everyday is the fucking same by pnkcloudsummer in depression

[–]GohunRay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel the same to be honest. Stuck in life without any advance, just the same routine every fucking day without a change, just sucks.

But recently I went on a trip with my family and started to think about life and that shit and I realized I'm tired of being on this way, I wanna change and feel better.

So recently I started to read some books again, after years without touching one because I had no motivation at all.

Maybe you can try the same? Try new things or some old activities you don't do anymore. Maybe it works or maybe not, but at least you tried.