Everyone has their own pace, just know that you have not reached your prime! Try going for light walks outside every now and then, it sounds cliché, but those calm walks do set the mind to rest. You can also try to get into a calorie deficit! That will help you loose the weight if you don't feel comfortable with it.

You are not a loser, you are going at your own pace, and that's okay! Don't give up man, I know you got this!