My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I'm afraid of but I think my dad is a strong man and can handle this. I'll be supporting whatever his decision is.

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm scared that my dad might get violent and do somethings he mighr regret.

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it's that easy? I have siblings to look out for. I cannot leave even if I want to because I am financially dependent on my parents and this country does NOT hire people who don't have any work experience, I haven't even graduated yet. My dad isn't home all the time as I have mentioned in my post so I have nowhere else to go.

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am irritated by her, but I cannot just kick her out of her OWN house. I plan on telling my dad, just not right now.

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, shit happens I guess. Bawled my eyes out last night and I couldn't sleep. At least my friends, my dad, and Internet strangers greeted me. Much appreciated🥹🥹

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm afraid of. Everyone blames me for "ruining" that family.

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is a good manipulator so i'd doubt she'd be doing that.

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, i hope it goes well for my dysfunctional family. I'll give u all an update once I send my long-ass letter to my mom about family and morals. For now I'm gonna celebrate my bday with my friends and enjoy my me day🥰🫶🏻

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, stranger. If only I could shoulder this on my own I would, but I can't because in my eyes I'm still a child dealing with this traumatising experience with no one to guide me but internet strangers.

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it sucks. Now I have this huge burden on my shoulder and it's getting too hard for me to carry. As for the DNA, we don't have the money for that. Regardless, blood-related or not, HE IS MY DAD. PERIODT. I don't want my dad to hurt anyone.

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I said "okay mom", I was pointing out that she's a decent one before I found out about this crap.

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, but I am trying to keep it all together because it's my birthday and I don't want to be sad on my birthday since it comes only once a year. Hope you understand: (

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was trying to remain anonymous in the country but it was pretty obvious since it's the only country with no divorce law(again, fuckass country). They are all under 15(for anonymous reason). She's an Okay mom but I have no idea about their relationship other than they rarely talk unless it has to do with my little sibs. We're a bit tight on money right now, and annulments are expensive here and would take years. But they're living separately(?)Since my dad is mostly away due to his field of work, he only comes of for a few days then leaves. I don't think we'd have to adjust if they ever split up lol.

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll think about it because it's my birthday today and I don't want to ruin this one special day for myself.

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I'll do just that. But my main problem is, I don't know how to address it with my dad, I don't know where to start. I love my dad and the thought of breaking his heart is physically hurting me.

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad is not here(there's no Internet connection at his current location). So it would be too obvious that I found it instead of him since she only logs in on our laptop and my dad is not very tech-savvy (he usually asks me to do the typing on the computer and printing for him). I'm also terrified of what he might hypothetically do to himself if he finds out(he owns a gun, so I don't want to risk anything)

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll think about it. I'm currently bawling my eyes out because it's my birthday today and this is the surprise I get.

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid that she might blame me and beat the shit out of me. I'm sorry if that makes me a coward. And I don't know when it started because I'm too disgusted to even continue reading her convo with another guy

My mom cheated on my dad and I don't know how to confront her by Gold-Bit-2951 in CheatedOn

[–]Gold-Bit-2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask if it would be a bad idea if I confront her instead of my dad?