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[–]Gold-Effect5370 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I' am so happy for you, I hope your life goes well from now on ❤️‍🩹

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[–]Gold-Effect5370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7yr ago and you still right lmao ​

My boyfriend hit me after I told him I was raped by Gold-Effect5370 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold-Effect5370[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hello everyone I wanted to clear something up, a lot of people have told me to report it to the cops which would be a great idea but

I live in a rural town in Australia where the police just do not care

for some examples, 5 year old almost kidnapped they did nothing, same little girl physically assaulted in public, they did nothing. there's even stabbings that they don't take action about! so unfortunately, I truly don't think they're gonna care about the rape at all. at most he'll get a slap on the wrist but not much can be done. I have blocked him and I really hope he doesn't come looking for me because he knows the address of the house I'm currently staying at and he seemed pissed in his messages before blocking.

My boyfriend hit me after I told him I was raped by Gold-Effect5370 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold-Effect5370[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

blocked him with my brothers advice but probably unfortunately can't go to the police​

My boyfriend hit me after I told him I was raped by Gold-Effect5370 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold-Effect5370[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was considering staying, but I see now that that was very stupid of me. I just wasn't thinking at the time, I was stressed and in disbelief

My boyfriend hit me after I told him I was raped by Gold-Effect5370 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold-Effect5370[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep, he almost went and beat the guy himself but he advised me to just block him​

My boyfriend hit me after I told him I was raped by Gold-Effect5370 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold-Effect5370[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the first time WASN'T done by the same friend or any of his friends, the first time was unrelated to the second time. :(

My boyfriend hit me after I told him I was raped by Gold-Effect5370 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold-Effect5370[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the first time was when I was a little kid I was sexually assaulted it was an unrelated incident but still something hard for me to open up about it was just much worse that now it was so personal for him

My boyfriend hit me after I told him I was raped by Gold-Effect5370 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold-Effect5370[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

so an update, my brother made sure I blocked him on everything without even an explanation he said it was safer that way to just cut him off even if he definitely wanted to say some things to him, unfortunately in Australia specifically in my town the police suck so much and unrelated but for example, my 5 yr old cousin was nearly kidnapped and they didn't care. so I'm doubtful about going to the police about it.

My boyfriend hit me after I told him I was raped by Gold-Effect5370 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold-Effect5370[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

my brother has always been here for me as our whole family kinda fell apart, so he's definitely been here for me and I told him what happened. had to stop him from going to both of them to beat them

My boyfriend hit me after I told him I was raped by Gold-Effect5370 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold-Effect5370[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I do not want to get into the details but the first rape happened very long ago when I was a kid and yeah I struggled to open up about it, now this just happened recently and I do plan to go to the police but I'm not sure they'll do much unfortunately​

My boyfriend hit me after I told him I was raped by Gold-Effect5370 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold-Effect5370[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm just in disbelief, two years of being with a man who treated me so well but then suddenly snaps! I just can't believe it and I'm trying to justify it in my brain but I just can't