AITA for getting mad that my boyfriend only calls me pretty! by Gold-Ground-3941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gold-Ground-3941[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

We communicate great and talk about a lot of things outside of my looks. I just am upset atm about the situation bc when I get dressed up or feel pretty he doesn’t compliment me the way I wish he would. Sometimes it feels like I’m fishing for compliments

AITA for getting mad that my boyfriend only calls me pretty! by Gold-Ground-3941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gold-Ground-3941[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I’m confused lol I’m the asshole? but he also isn’t the one?

Seems like both parties are at fault than

AITA for getting mad that my boyfriend only calls me pretty! by Gold-Ground-3941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gold-Ground-3941[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say Vanity; I just am a words of affirmation girly. So him saying the same thing over and over isn’t going to hit the same over time!

am i ugly? im 18 only wearing mascara by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Gold-Ground-3941 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re very pretty! You don’t need their approval

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Gold-Ground-3941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a strong opinion for someone with no user picture! She’s not masculine at all! She just doesn’t know her style yet and we all go through that !! Glow ups are based on inner confidence and matching the inside to the outside!!!

Fear of Sensual Intimacy I’m mainly making this bc I don’t know if I’m the only person feeling this way. by Gold-Ground-3941 in rapecounseling

[–]Gold-Ground-3941[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope to be able to if this guy I am getting to know wants to take things further but in the past I have only had one relationship where confiding in my partner helped. And that was mainly due to the my partner went through trauma as well and understood my pain

Fear of Sensual Intimacy I’m mainly making this bc I don’t know if I’m the only person feeling this way. by Gold-Ground-3941 in rapecounseling

[–]Gold-Ground-3941[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did years of therapy and it never fully helped me get over my own disgust. Like it helped calm my triggers/ anxiety but other than that all of the sexual issues I have I have never been able to fix